UPDATE: Still can't relax and keep erection

MrFreshNKleen

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My original post was here: http://www.steroidology.com/forum/showthread.php?t=53725


Basically, ive been with my new girl for a few weeks and we've slept together about 3 times. First time just sucked, I couldnt keep it up for more than a few minutes of constant stimulation:
Second time I actually came after a long long time.
Last night sucked again. She was on top and it felt good. So then she asked to switch it up and we went for doggystyle.........I started getting anxious, thinking "dont fuck this up, dont fuck this up". This is where it all fell apart. I couldn't keep an erection anymore. I got soft....she tried giving me head, licking my neck, etc etc . I got hard for a second, tried doggystyle agian, and Wham got soft again. She thought it was something that she did.....so she tried givng me a blow to get it hard but nothing worked.


I never thought in my life I would have sexual anxiety, im only fuckin 21. What the hell should i try to relax, get horny, and have fun???
 
Bro, I'm not ruling out anxiety but when I read your post it sounds like I'm listening to myself a month a ago! I used to have the exact problem, and it fuckin sucks. I'm telling you lose the propecia for a while and see what comes out of it! Since I stopped, problemo solved period. Your broad is going to think your shit in bed, so it's either the pill or the chick but one is going to leave! Good luck!

regards
right pumped!
 
right pumped said:
..... I'm telling you lose the propecia for a while and see what comes out of it! Since I stopped, problemo solved period. Your broad is going to think your shit in bed, so it's either the pill or the chick but one is going to leave! Good luck!

Hey i thought you guys were gonna help and encourage me, not depress me :eek2: :bawling: j/k

I stopped propecia 4 days ago, and ya i started gettign random wood thinkin about her/sex

hmmmmm
 
I'm having the same problems myself with the past 3 relastionships and always during the first 2 sessions are failed after that its all good. But this recent relationship I failed like 3 times our first time then it was like ALL good for a minute, I could bone her and it be koo but last 2 sessions ended up in failure, I was only able to get up when she was on top of me riding me, but when I switch over to missionary style or take a second to put a condom on, I go limp, fucking sux bro
 
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Its just called performance anxiety. Does not matter what age you are. I don;t have a problem keeping it up, but I do have a problem with cumming with a new chick.

(my wife and I do FFM 3somes so there is quite a bit of pressure)

It makes you cool the first few times, then the chick thinks she is the problem, because I am banging for an hour and can't nut. - A different problem, but still a problem.

The more you are with this chick, the more you will relax. If you need use the Viagra or Cials for a little while, no big deal.

Propecia can def fuck with your erection. Lower your dose or lose it.
 
UPDATE, I bought a few packs of Stamina-RX, they come in 2's I only took 1 just incase because of my age being 25, I wanted to see how I would react to 1, it was enough! I was like YA!!! When I finished busting my nut, she was ready to go another round, she hinted a few times but I cant hang when it comes to that, I use to be able to when I was 18!! Maybe I should have taken the 2 but I know it definatley worked!

It kicked in for me within the first 15-25 minutes I believe, awsome shit, and I didnt get no headaches or stomach aches like viagra or ceilis claims to have as side affects.
 
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Have you tried mental help? I know these are forums and all, but if you were abused in any way or if you grew up in a sexually repressive house, that can really screw you up mentally when it comes to sex and intimacy.
 
sombra1 said:
So do stamina RX actually work? how about T3?

Sombra ya it worked for me, I only took 1 though to test it out, It definatley worked I could start to feel it kick in within like 15 or 25 minutes after I took a piece of bread. Now when I mean kick in, I mean like I'm next to my girlfriend and just huging her and doing normal carressing and I could tell.

I bought me the 2 pill packet form at $2.50 a pop I think. When I went to monsters or rock in the back section where they carry their bongs, porno flicks, sex toys, they had a few other things. I asked the guy if they had viagra and he said they had similiar products and showed me all they had. And said Stamina-RX was frequented by regular customers. Because I asked him do these actually work, so like basically he was telling me that was his best seller regarding the sex performance supplements.

Still a little reluctant to take it at first after reading some reviews on the net, but it was only 1 review from FDA, then I read some reviews on Amazon.

Well I took 1 and I'm saying it worked for me, and No bad side effects as far as I could tell, other than getting a super boner and busting a fat nut :rockband:

But I fall in the performance anxiety catagory luckily!!! cuzz I dont take steroids, and now I wont after reading what happens to guys sex drive on these forums and I dont need shrunk testies :rolleyes:
 
Soonbebig - pnline or ata sex shop, that stuff is ....wow, it's just great.

I'm glad I saw this board. I've had erectile disfunction to differetn degrees since I was 18. It's aways the 1st couple times and then I feel comfortable and get into the swing of things and I am an animal. IF I even think of sex with my GF i'm pointed like a rocket with nothing but mental stumulation but the 1st time or two she could have done just about anything to me and I still would have had trouble. It's iunfortunate because I don't really take advantage of all the one night stands that I could have because of it. I don't know why but I get very nervous, anxiuous etc. I find that the drugs that force it. i.e stamina rx etc reall y help and then after i'm good for a few times I never need it again.
 
get some cialis, you should have no problem then. Use it a few times till you feel totally comfterable and made a good example of yourself and then you shouldnt need it.
 
You need some liquid cialis from researchchems.com and some G to prevent from nutting. I've banged a female bodybuilder for several hours straight.
 
I'd say just pound some beers and the performance anxiety will go out the window!
Take a couple of shots of tequila 1st then chase it with some beers. You'll be runnin around, rockin out with your cock out for sure!

:rockband:
 
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