Completely lost sex drive

AMAC83

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I've been trying to figure this out on my own and ran across this thread tonight. I do more reading on here then I do posting lol. I've been off cycle since October and finished pct few weeks ago and my sex drive hasn't came back. I'm waiting for my new insurance to take effect(thanks obama) so I can get my levels checked and go from there. Here's the deal though...my girl is easily a 9 and I hope at night she doesn't want to have sex. It's almost like it doesn't interest me at all but during the day I think about other women and the drive is there. When I was on cycle we had sex everyday and still I thought about other women like I got off on knowing what I was thinking was wrong. I somewhat feel like its the rush I get from thinking about doing something wrong that makes me want to have sex with other women now. With my girl though she is as close to perfect as they get and one of the hottest women I've ever seen but its almost like because it is so easy I don't want it. The bad thing is I just want to be normal and not even think like this. Another thing is in the past 2 weeks I took a 100 mg pack of kamagra and nothing happened (its legit cuz same batch worked couple months ago) that didn't work so I took a 200mg cialis and I still didn't want to do anything. I know they are for ED but I was hoping they might've stimulated me to want to have sex. I'm trying the process of elimination here. Anyone have any thoughts on this?
 
Don't take 200mg of cialis. 20mg is an appropriate dose.

Do you have recent blood work? That will help us see if something is wrong with you. You may not have recovered fully.

And lastly, we definitely need you to post a pic of your girlfriend. Let's see her ass too!
 
U show me a hot piece, and I'll show u atleast 5 guys that are tired of beating that up.. it happens.
 
I'm waiting for my new insurance to take effect at the beginning of February then I'm going to get the labs. I'm a recovering addict its hard wired in my mind more is always better! haha Sorry its all I've got! View attachment 555657
 
200mg cialis in one dose? How were the sides? I accidentally took 400mg cialis at one time and i had a migraine headache for 3 days alongside extremely severe back pain and ache.
 
Whoa...I'm sorry guys but I posted a thread not too long ago mentioning how blood work is not the best indicator of a person's sex drive. Sure, if you feel like it, get the hormone test but I hate to say that is not the way to go about this. There are guys who naturally have very low test with extremely high libidos while there are men with outrageous test levels who have no interest. Libido isn't that simple....it just isn't.

He's talking about how he only has interest when he thinks about kind of perverse (not perverted :) ) things....meaning it has nothing to do with his hormone levels. I've been through this as well. I used to be with a smoking hot girl (fitness model) and she was so freaking sweet and nice to me that I couldn't go through with anything dirty with her. To start, try to lay off any supplements or drugs. When you aren't having ED issues sometimes they just build up anxiety related to sex. Next, what is about other women that still turns you on that maybe your girl doesn't have or do? Can you talk to her about these things so maybe she can be more like whatever you fantasize about? Lastly, how often do you masturbate or watch porn? This is crucial. As I said in my thread on porn addiction, this is typically the biggest problem for a lot of guys.

So yeah, sure, get your hormones read for knowledge's sake but know that that is not the issue here. People who use steroids tend to think that all of life's problems are due to aas....I wish it were that simple :)
 
The OP stated that he had a healthy sex drive prior to ending his cycle in October. Since then it has been lower. That is what makes me suspect hormones. Unless something else has changed (e.g. just began watching porn).
 
Porn in itself does not cause a lowered sex drive...it's a factor that a lot of people don't consider though. Libido can be affected by countless variables - diet, issues with work, self-image, physiological and coronary issues, drugs and supplementation, psychological ebs and flows, communication issues with partner, alcohol, tobacco, exposure to explicit material, masturbation habits, guilt, seasonal affect, interactive types with significant and non-significant others, anxiety...etc. Just to name a few :) The last thing I would consider is hormone levels, even with a steroid user.
 
I ran a 12 week cycle last year...500 test e every 4 days and dbol and then took 10 days of hcg after 4 weeks off of the test then I mentally thought I had to run a last cycle and going to be done with it for good since she disagrees with it. We had broken up and were working on getting back together and she was blaming juice for the problems but I'm a very laid back person no rage or anything like that. Long story short I ran Test E at 750 a week and 50 mg anadrol for about 10 more weeks and finally did a pct and came off for good. I think my hormone levels are down but in conjunction to getting back together with her. I can get an erection just have absolutely no desire to have sex so I've lost my libido. My pct consisted of 500mg hcg for 10 days after being off test for 4 weeks then 50 mg clomid for 3 weeks and 20 mg nolva for a week and 10mg for the next 3.( That was all I had and hated to pay so much for shipping for just a box of clomid/nolva but now I'm kinda wishing I would had haha.

I'm an alcoholic/addict and been sober 4 years in a couple of weeks and the gym helped get and keep me that way. So naturally I like to do what I'm not supposed to, find excitement in doing the wrong thing, or at least entertaining the though of it. She is willing to do anything in that way and has a hell of a body. She's 130, D cup and an ass you can sit a cup of water on. I'm just not sure if it is the whole part of it being too easy cause she is so giving and nice or what it is. I would like the be normal and not think like that but it takes time to change your thought processes. I don't really have a problem getting it up the hard part is having the desire to want to. Now granted it isn't working like it was precycle or during cycle. Im going to spend the money to have levels checked just to either know or not if that is playing a part in it. I had my test levels checked the year before I went on cycle and my doc said they were in the mid 900's.

Thanks for all the input, I can't really process the thoughts/problems with family and friends don't understand cause they don't workout or use AAS. Again thanks for the insight!
 
If you're good with other women then it most likely isn't hormones. It sounds like you need some strange. I get sick of every woman I date after a short time and not bragging, but I date fucking ridiculously gorgeous women. It's just the way I am. I like change and chase and various body types. it sucks cuz it's happening with the girl I'm with and it's ruining our relationship and she's so perfect for me, but she isn't nearly as hot as I could easily get. Try to get with another woman of a different body type and if that doesn't help you get it out off your system then it might be time to move on unless she is someone you can marry and supports you entirely. if that's the case then work on it. The getting some strange usually helps me stay good with my girl cuz her personality is perfect and she is very faithful. It sucks to cheat on someone you love and this sounds so shitty, but if it'll save a great relationship, I'd it not worth it?
 
Maybe while watching porn, u got turned on by them big throbbing cock! Hahaha j/k
I think your just stressing out too much. The bitch is probably chirping in your ear about getting a place, getting married, and visiting her parents every weekend. How would u bust a nut thinking about that? Or, she pulled the "I'm late" card too many times with u.
 
I've been trying to figure this out on my own and ran across this thread tonight. I do more reading on here then I do posting lol. I've been off cycle since October and finished pct few weeks ago and my sex drive hasn't came back. I'm waiting for my new insurance to take effect(thanks obama) so I can get my levels checked and go from there. Here's the deal though...my girl is easily a 9 and I hope at night she doesn't want to have sex. It's almost like it doesn't interest me at all but during the day I think about other women and the drive is there. When I was on cycle we had sex everyday and still I thought about other women like I got off on knowing what I was thinking was wrong. I somewhat feel like its the rush I get from thinking about doing something wrong that makes me want to have sex with other women now. With my girl though she is as close to perfect as they get and one of the hottest women I've ever seen but its almost like because it is so easy I don't want it. The bad thing is I just want to be normal and not even think like this. Another thing is in the past 2 weeks I took a 100 mg pack of kamagra and nothing happened (its legit cuz same batch worked couple months ago) that didn't work so I took a 200mg cialis and I still didn't want to do anything. I know they are for ED but I was hoping they might've stimulated me to want to have sex. I'm trying the process of elimination here. Anyone have any thoughts on this?
Hello my fellow addict, glad to see i'm not the only one. Anyway man, Youre story goes to show u that sometimes PCT can be overated. Yeah sure it helps get your natural levels back, but eventually u have to face getting off those drugs as well. I did steroids on and off for about 4 years, then something came up and i had to get off for 2.5 years. In all honestly man, It took probably a year to get my sex drive fully back, and even then it was nothing like it was...
 
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