i know what you are saying brother,ive always been in a sense,where im a big boy lol and their always some asshole who wants to try you,no matter what,i used to be a bouncer for years,and i never got into alot of fights,i was just nice,just like in the movie Roadhouse,be nice,its just a job ya know lol,plus all my friends their was a biker gang,and i have a lot of tattoos and i guess i was seen as intimidating,im not bragging,but ive always been told that,but theres always some idiot who wants to try you,most of the time,i just escorted them out,they cussed me etc,but i was nice,and i tried to not be in a lot of fights lol