Best way to deal with a breakup?

Well I tell ya what, its important to keep busy and go out and shit like that. Surround yourself with the opposite sex to keep your mind off the x..
I also like to medicate alot with illegal drugs to numb the pain ....
 
Best way is to concentrate on why you broke up in the first place and not on why you wish you didn't ... there is a reason you are not together... if it wasn't your fault it will sit ok in your head...unless she was cheating or something... or I guess if you were cheating then that would suck for you too... but if it's a mature relationship that ended cause you just weren't getting along like you should be then you will be fine in knowing that you are doing what's best
 
Hire a good lawyer!! ;)

Seriously, I haven't figured it out yet. The legal side (marriage) has been a bit scary for me but the whole being alone thing has been even worse. After 10 years together, it's just weird being alone all the time. I have no interest in relationships now but I do find hanging with chicks to be somewhat distracting. Keeps the mind off things...
 
My last post was before my chick spun the situation on me... now I am lost.... lol.... How does that shit happen... ugh.... anyway now I could use some tips..... This shit sucks?

Keep your mind on other shit is the only solution I have found...
 
This is a true story: When my fiance dumped me two weeks before our wedding I called one of my best friends - a girl - and she told me to come down to her lake place right then as they were having a party and I shoudl not be alone at a time like that. So, I got there and there were about four couples and couple single guys and one single hottie I had gone to school with. We all got high and my friend switched on some porn tape and we watched it and next thing I know the girl is sitting next to me telling me that she found out what happened and that it sucked and how she thought my ex was a piece of shit for doing that. Time went by and it was time to crash so my friend led me and the girl to a room downstairs and then went off with the girl who returned in a fucking teddy! We had porn star sex twice that night and once in the morning and, you know what? I survived that whole ordeal and went on with my life thanks to the kindness of my friend and the girl I fucked.
 
lift like hell. Takes the aggrivation out a little bit and gets rid of your frustration.

and get some more ass, that will take your mind off it for a while.
 
Just "turn the page". It's that easy....what's done is done. Worry about shit you can control going forward.

Gumbo

Oh yeah....make sure you go out and bang all the broads you wish you could have when you had a girlfriend. :)
 
also dont get drunk makes you call your ex up at 3 in the morning, and make an ass out of yourself by saying stuff you dont mean
 
bosshog said:
Well I tell ya what, its important to keep busy and go out and shit like that. Surround yourself with the opposite sex to keep your mind off the x..
I also like to medicate alot with illegal drugs to numb the pain ....
my thoughts exactly!
 
Hang around with friends and family. Get out..
Without girls you can train harder man! Have girls on weekends and no more :)
 
Just get on with your life and meet other women.And remember not to try to hard.
Ill tell you what happened to me once. When I was 25 years old ,I went out with this girl,and we got all serious and shit,well she ended up dumping me ,and I had a hard time getting over her.Once I did ,(IT TOOK ABOUT A YEAR) then started to see other women with my new fuckem and leavem attitude. I met and dated all the women I wanted.I stoped trying so hard. And when I did, I got layed all the time.Well, thats when I met a wonderful women that I care the world for and could not just leave.
We got married and have neen for 17 years now and I love her more all the time.
I never really forgot about the girl that broke my heart,so last summer I looked her up and called her.Well, Now that ive talked to her, after all these years of beating myself up,I say to my self what the heck was so great about her! All im trying to say is get out there live life and meet other women,and the right one will come along,and for gods sake,dont beat your self up trying to figure out what went wrong.
 
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