No i am dead serious and I actually plan on marrying this girl. As far as being 'disgraceful' that's your opinion, there are literally 100's of thousands if not millions of couples around the world who have open sex lives and are perfectly happy together. I could try to explain how life is all about experiences and trying new things, how if your truly in love with the person your with then trying new things together can only bring you closer provided your are respectful and considerate of each others feelings. If one wants to back out then that's fine and you move on together. I could also try to explain that putting the world and everyone in it into your little box of morality to comfort yourself or make you feel morally superior is just an illusion of control and comfort. I could tell you many many things, but you wouldn't understand them, accept them or even try to open your mind to them. Also, I don't have to do any of those things because the only people have a valued opinion and who's happiness and comfort in this relationship matter is mine and my GF's. So you can sit on your high horse, pass judgement and while your focused on that, life will be passing you by and you will be robbing yourself of the only thing that truly matters in this one, short and fragile life we get. Trying things, experiences, being able to lay in your death bed and say "I did that, I tried it all". Anyway my god Ocdude, just read Austinites Supp post. That's quite a few things to add to my regime. I wonder if Austinite has somewhere he shops that I can just hit them up and say "I want the Austinite special please" lol. Where is a good place to get all of this stuff Austinite? I actually just got a big ass vial of Cyanocobalamin from my sister day before yesterday she is a med Assistant, I just wish I had known it was the least effective lol.