I tend to be a bit of a nihilist.
Dres getting his ass chewed out for busting a $30,000 tool hahaha. The owner is none too happy but he's the one that rushed me when I told him it wasn't a good idea![]()
That's not good bud![]()
Dres getting his ass chewed out for busting a $30,000 tool hahaha. The owner is none too happy but he's the one that rushed me when I told him it wasn't a good idea![]()
there are different stages of anxiety that people have in social situations.. the first is usually the hardest..
approach anxiety.. it comes with the feeling of rejection..
there is a simple drill you can do to overcome it..
go to a bar that isn't close to you.. and doesn't have people you know.. in hollywood that's easy.. in a rural place its not...
order a beer.. drink half off it ...
walk around and ask every person there if they want your beer... 100% of the time you will be rejected... the idea is to get numb to rejection ..
when you have no fear of rejection approach anxiety disappears
years ago i used to do PUA seminars with a friend in hollywood.. we would sarge 4-5 bars a night
That's actually a good practice lol. For me it's not necessarily the fear of rejection, I already know 90% of people think I'm an asshole and aren't going to like me. Cold approach has a shitty success rate though in my experience. The hard part for me is actually FINDING, specifically women, to even talk to. I mean yeah small talk at the grocery store or whatever, that's easy... but it's always the bagger or cashier. I never catch a girl in the produce isle or something to talk to yanno? After high school my social circle and friends plummeted, plus it doesn't help that they're all still in the "party" stage and I've more or less moved on from that. I feel like the best way to meet people in general is through people you already know. BUT, what do you do when you already know all of the people your friends are friends with? As an early 20's male, where the hell do you go to make new friends?
Ohh, you're talking more along the lines of Cap's yard waste.![]()
When it comes to women I have just one philosophy.
Be yourself.
There's no sense trying to build a stable relationship that started off as manipulation.
Get the sand out of your vagina and talk to them!
^^ this is the new phrase of the day.
yea.. that doesn't work lol... first manipulate (not in an ill manner) then be yourself bro.. you have to spark interest.. 50 guys go up to that girl in one night.. what makes you different??
I kinda half assed made a new friend at the gym the other day, but it hasn't gone passed a spot or two and some head nods, "sups" and fist bumps.
i have helped nerdy socially crippled guys find good women bro.. women who usually end up with the asshole that treats them like shit end up with a guy that will treat them right..
PUA isn't about conquest.. its about bringing people together.. thanks to the retarded psychology of women these days it takes manipulation
It did for me, going on 7 years now.
Being manipulative just attracts manipulative women.
So, when's the wedding?