Gibsonator
I am banned!
Aight guys so check it out, the woman and I go through this vicious cycle where every so on she likes to nag/bitch/complain and pick apart everything I do for like a week here, a couple days there. My favorite is when she gets upset over me being upset with her. I'm sure you guys know what I'm talking about...
So the other day after working 20 hrs I get woken up an hour after going to sleep because I had gotten a call from a private number. Got grilled and accused of a bunch of shit even though I am as loyal and loving as can be to her. So that blew over 2 days ago. Then yesterday she was looking at me using my phone as I was going through my photo gallery and she saw my selflies and got all questioning about that, even though they are clearly progress pics.
Then today at the gym we were doing squats together, as much as I hate taking the weights on and off the bar for her, and watching her 3/4 squat lol. So she puts her headphones on as I'm trying to talk to her. I let it go and did my set. Then she did it again. So now I'm pissed. If I take the time to move all these weights on and off the God damn bar I expect at least she have her headphones off in between sets to conversate. Common courtesy right. I felt it was very rude. I know if I did the same thing she would complain about it. So I complained. Well that turned out terrible. She left the squat rack and told me to fuck off. I'm like, I don't have time or energy for this shit so when I was done I left her ass at the gym. Obviously we are not talking right now.
I'm just so sick of the double standard bullshit. If she's upset about something I'm supposed to care and fix the problem. If I'm upset about something she just gets upset at me for being upset and then it's a few days of silence til someone gives in. Shit is weak. Anyways I'm a Lil pissed and although I love this woman very much I do sometimes think about just bouncing when we go through this shit. K rant over thanks haha.
So the other day after working 20 hrs I get woken up an hour after going to sleep because I had gotten a call from a private number. Got grilled and accused of a bunch of shit even though I am as loyal and loving as can be to her. So that blew over 2 days ago. Then yesterday she was looking at me using my phone as I was going through my photo gallery and she saw my selflies and got all questioning about that, even though they are clearly progress pics.
Then today at the gym we were doing squats together, as much as I hate taking the weights on and off the bar for her, and watching her 3/4 squat lol. So she puts her headphones on as I'm trying to talk to her. I let it go and did my set. Then she did it again. So now I'm pissed. If I take the time to move all these weights on and off the God damn bar I expect at least she have her headphones off in between sets to conversate. Common courtesy right. I felt it was very rude. I know if I did the same thing she would complain about it. So I complained. Well that turned out terrible. She left the squat rack and told me to fuck off. I'm like, I don't have time or energy for this shit so when I was done I left her ass at the gym. Obviously we are not talking right now.
I'm just so sick of the double standard bullshit. If she's upset about something I'm supposed to care and fix the problem. If I'm upset about something she just gets upset at me for being upset and then it's a few days of silence til someone gives in. Shit is weak. Anyways I'm a Lil pissed and although I love this woman very much I do sometimes think about just bouncing when we go through this shit. K rant over thanks haha.
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