thanks everybody, You wouldn't believe me if I told you all the things I do to try to make it better. She gets the free days were I take the kids & she does her thing. She gets flowers, gifts etc on a weekly basis. She gets foot rubs, back rubs etc. on a regular basis, I always tell what awonderful mother & wife she is! We have been together for 5 years we are best friends she says it's not me. Part of it is the new baby and other things but she says she would just like to want it more often. SShe loves the sex we do have, she just doesn't desire it like she used to. She's in her prime 33 she shouldn't feel like that. She knows I'm asking. She doesn't want to go with Anabolic Androgenic Steroids (AAS) to help, natural & from someone who has tried what they recommend. thanks everyone