ladies i need some advice.

[faze]

ok this girl and i have been dateing for about a year. Shes put on a few pounds since we started dateing. I hadn't noticed how bad it got till yesterday. she was wearing these pants that seemed a bit tight, not only was her ass shaped....uhh...not so great... but she had a fat roll that you could see because her shirt couldnt quite reach her pants... it honestly almost made me throw up.

Shes aware of it, but she is like ill do something about it when you do something about yourself(i havent been lifting for the past few months)... but im not fat... i just wish she would do something cuz honestly im not turned on by her... I've gone on diets... and she cant stick to them... she is always like blahblahblah our scheduals wont make it work... or gives me some kina excuse to break it. I dont want to be the superficial asshole who breaks up with his gf cuz she gained weight, but god its just starting to get gross here. its not like shes horrible, im just very critical... if she lost 10 lbs shed look awsome. but i cant even make her stick to a diet for a week let alone long enough to make her lose 10 lbs.

WHAT SHOULD I DO!!?!?!

 

[rubberduckyo]

If you're considering dumping a girlfriend because of a weight gain it doesn't sound (to me at least) like there was much of a relationship there to begin with. Sorry. Just being honest.

I guess it depends on where you see this relationship going. If it's just a casual fling then physical attraction IS quite important. Otherwise, I fail to see the issue here.

 

[rubberduckyo]

Hmm..... I should correct that statement a bit. What I mean to say is that if her weight gain ALONE is the reason for you considering dumping her then you should hightail it out of there regardless if she gets her diet in check or not. Make any sense?

 

[DaLinkWent]

Maybe you should just consider yourself a "chubby chaser"?