exactly. there are different opinions on this and much depends on your goals. for me, to avoid wrist problems: rotate your elbows back a few inches; this helps position your wrists properly under the bar; then rest the weight of the bar on top of the lowest part of your hand/palm...again, i don't recommend gripping the bar, just resting the weight basically above the wrist (as if i didn't even have hands, just stubby wrists).