Mind over body

TPH76

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For a couple of weeks now I have had the nasty problem of hitting a wall..or plateau if you like. I was stuck at a maximum of 154lbs while benching and whatever I did or did not do...I simply could not lift one single pound more.
Oddly enough I could also not increase my max weight with dumbell press (77 lbs).

Because I could still increase weight in my first sets and thus increasing overall workcapacity I still made good gains in size...so I wasn't particularly worried...as that is my primary goal. I train alone btw.

Our gym is primarilly a familly gym. Those very few BB-ers who train there are a small tight group, very good friends of the owner and keep to themselves as much as possible....and shun the general population. This makes for a classic: you can talk to us but we probably are to bussy to listen type of situation. They certainly don't like to share...so they have their "own" times they train. The gym is mostly deserted at those times and they have the run of the places and can do what they like.

Last week my work schedule was very very hectic so I could not keep to my normal training hours and I suddenly was benching during "their" time. Now as I came up to my last set I asked one of them to spot for me...which took me several minuted of persuading...because these guys are not very inclined to help anybody outside their group.

I had people spot before...but that usually just entailed that I had prepared the barbel and they would just stand there and intervene when things did not go as planned.

This guy however steps up to the bench...looks at my weight and tells me he does not agree with my assessment of my maximum weight and increased the amount of weight by 88lbs and simply stated as a matter of course that I could do that and that he would be there if I couldn't.

The simple fact that he was standing there and the fact that for some reason I trusted this guy to really be there if things went wrong....made me lift the
weight 8 times without any help.

Since then I have managed to increase maximum weight on all my exercises....and repeated the same amount today on my own.

Sometimes your mind can be a wonderful thing...on others it can be your worst advicary. I had myself convinced that the weight was too heavy for me to lift, when in fact it wasn't even near my capacity....but my body responded to what my mind was saying by refusing to lift the weight.

Anyway...feeling very proud of myself now...and just thought it could be useful info for some here...
 
yes i find too with a spotter i can some times go way hvier than i could alone...knowing some is there to get your back or to coax you on is a big part of lifting and those few who have parteners will probably make faster and better gains than those with out..imo
 
adidamps2 said:
yes i find too with a spotter i can some times go way hvier than i could alone...knowing some is there to get your back or to coax you on is a big part of lifting and those few who have parteners will probably make faster and better gains than those with out..imo


Then by all means get someone to spot you. Just the difference in confidence alone makes for better lifts.
 
"A couple of weeks now" makes me feel like you are maxing every week? I have done that long, long ago when I didn't know any better but really you shouldn't IMO.
 
Mudge said:
"A couple of weeks now" makes me feel like you are maxing every week? I have done that long, long ago when I didn't know any better but really you shouldn't IMO.

I usually do one exercise to the max and my support exercises to a comfortable weight. I train chest and biceps twice a week....and all other groups ones a week and use every schedule for 6 weeks and then I re-evalute.

But you are saying going to the max is not a good idea? Can you elaborate on that a bit?
 
Mudge said:
"A couple of weeks now" makes me feel like you are maxing every week? I have done that long, long ago when I didn't know any better but really you shouldn't IMO.

we all made that mistake..i used to bench 3 times per week lol..cant force people to listen to you

and people wonder why it is they are so weak
 
sometimes i bench three times a week and that has not hindered any of my gains, even though it is rare when i do. how is your training regimen like and do u go high weight low rep or the opposite blackbeard?
 
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