TheDarkHalf
NTBM Rep
I thought this would be a worthwhile topic to add to the forum. With the way my mind works, I often to view things as a system. Certain inputs will produce certain outputs.
I'm starting this thread to swap ideas, experiences, give/share advice in regards to when it comes to picking up women for a one nighter, short term dating, looking for that long term relationship, etc. Whatever your case may be, we can discuss it here. I do very well with women, but even for someone as seasoned as myself it's good to have a reality check now and again to see what others have to say.
I'll open with the following story and would like advice and comments on how to proceed:
Used OkCupid to set up a meet with this girl I thought was rather cute. Got her to meet up for dinner and she was hotter in person than the pictures (almost never happens lol). Dinner was great and towards the end and she invited me to go out with her friends. I accepted the invite - we went back to my place to drop some stuff off at my place and then proceeded to go pregame at her friends place. Went to her place for more pregaming and went to the bar for about two hours. Ended up going back to her place after the bar and sealed the deal.
Date 2: We had planned on chilling at my place, but it was nice out so we decided to go hit up a rooftop bar. I went over to her place to meet up and it ended up being a bum night in, we never made it out and just chilled. We drank wine, smoked weed, ordered in some food, made out here and there, watched tv, and I ended up staying the night.
So, I guess what I'm looking for is what to do now. I want to keep things progressing forward. We are both actively dating around, but this is a cool chick and wouldn't mind trying to steadily date this one. Thoughts? Can provide more info if necessary
I'm starting this thread to swap ideas, experiences, give/share advice in regards to when it comes to picking up women for a one nighter, short term dating, looking for that long term relationship, etc. Whatever your case may be, we can discuss it here. I do very well with women, but even for someone as seasoned as myself it's good to have a reality check now and again to see what others have to say.
I'll open with the following story and would like advice and comments on how to proceed:
Used OkCupid to set up a meet with this girl I thought was rather cute. Got her to meet up for dinner and she was hotter in person than the pictures (almost never happens lol). Dinner was great and towards the end and she invited me to go out with her friends. I accepted the invite - we went back to my place to drop some stuff off at my place and then proceeded to go pregame at her friends place. Went to her place for more pregaming and went to the bar for about two hours. Ended up going back to her place after the bar and sealed the deal.
Date 2: We had planned on chilling at my place, but it was nice out so we decided to go hit up a rooftop bar. I went over to her place to meet up and it ended up being a bum night in, we never made it out and just chilled. We drank wine, smoked weed, ordered in some food, made out here and there, watched tv, and I ended up staying the night.
So, I guess what I'm looking for is what to do now. I want to keep things progressing forward. We are both actively dating around, but this is a cool chick and wouldn't mind trying to steadily date this one. Thoughts? Can provide more info if necessary