Finally getting to grips with the school sweetheart after 20 years trying - and the little bastard downstairs let me down.
It's the stuff of nightmares!
Remarkable how common the constellation of symptoms is. Seems like we have all been there, done that.
In addition to the cognitive and emotional ones, a day in the gym became literally an exercise in futility, where it was (an again is) my salvation.
It is such a shame that our society regards men on steroid therapy as a juice monkies in training. Imagine all those poor guys out there who mope through life (like we did), day after day in a fog wondering what the hell hit them. Damn shame, I say. Not sure what was the tipping point for you guys, but for me the bottom was coming into close focus before I asked my doc to do a T level. Was not even on her radar screen. Low and behold....I am a very different guy now. Never want to be that T-less guy again. Perhaps, in time, docs will do T screenings as a regular part of blood work, instead of treating our symptoms of depression and anxiety with big pharm products without bothering to explore the underlying cause of the misery.
The good ones are the ones that listen and recognize the difference between someone who is being a good advocate for themselves and someone who is a hypochondriac or a drug seeker.
Luckily the drug companies are doing a lot of marketing for Testosterone, and its grown into a big business, so more and more awareness has been raised. The two things that got me to get mine checked were those commercials, and all the older UFC fighters being on TRT. I think its up to individuals to be a good advocate for themselves. The more common T replacement gets, the less of a stigma it will have.
I agree, I omitted that I was feeling pretty much all of those symptoms that you listed here too...
But staying floppy while my schoolgirl sweetheart was waiting for an escort to heaven and back overshadowed the whole damn lot!
Agreed. You have to have a doc who is an ally, one that trusts you and is willing to stretch his or her imagination. Mine did and sent me to a urologist who has been a great partner in my therapy. When he saw my numbers and heard my symptoms, he immediately prescribed the therapy which my insurance covers. Unfortunately, not all docs are like that, and even fewer patients are able or prepared to advocate for themselves. The squeaky wheel, like most things in life....