ok 7 months later I got an appointment with an endocrinologist. he said, lets do you labs (again!! another hundred out of my HSA) and a sleep study.. (probably gonna beat my HSA up by 800 bucks)
Doing the sleep study tonight.. my labs came back total T is 160, free is 33.4.. hopefully this hassle of doing this all the proper way will pay off... I am hopping since going through insurance it will lower the cost a bit.. but holly fuck it has taken a shit load of time.