can't get it up

[bossman123]

I have been with my girlfriend for some 3 months now and everything was going ok i could stay hard as a rock for hours. then one night when we decide to have sex i cant get it up(this was my first time having sex or atleast attempting too). to add insult to injury the next night when she is giving me head i go soft in her mouth. I understand this would be normal for a 50 year old but i am fucken 17 years old this shit shouldnt be happening anyone have any ideas of what i can do to get back to the way i used to be?

 

[SamCooke]

do deep squats, lift heavy weights, eat more... dont take steroids... ummm...

dont know if dick will help.

 

[SamCooke]

wow... i just love those automatic links. i dont have to remember specific urls anymore, just keywords.

 

[boobmanz]

Maybe it's temporary. If you keep having erections problems, you gotta establish whether it's physichal or mental. If you have a hard on when you wake up (I think the English call it Morning Glory), it's probably a mental thing. But either way I should consult a doctor. It's nothing to be ashamed off. Lots of men experience it, but don't talk about, cause they feel ashamed.
Good luck.

 

[uff]

it happened to me once bro.
it was all in my mind,i was so worried about cumming to quick that i went soft.this happened for like 3 weeks then i took viagra and my confidence came back and now im fine.

 

[gorilla_boy]

Maybe you're gay?

 

[hungry]

Maybe you're gay?

hahahaha...must suck to find out when some girl is blowing you.

 

[montess]

hahahaha...must suck to find out when some girl is blowing you.

hahaha, that was great. on a serious note dude your probally just nervous. you'll get over it just try to relax instead of worrying if your as big as the other dudes she's been with.

 

[truck]

Same thing happend to me bro I was so fucked up in my mind about it it took me forever to get back to normal. Like they said above just buck up go to your doc and ask for a script or some samples to get your confidence back the sooner the better. This shit sent me into a depression for a while until I decided to take care of it. Its just nervs, your story sounds just like mine. Just get some viagra and take it just take it for a while until you ween yourself off of it and get your confidence back and i recomend doing it soon or else it'll take longet to get your confidence back. Trust me you are ok, just need a confidence booster.

 

[xzon]

i agree as well its all mental and stress plays a big yet subconscious role in the boner

 

[xzon]

anyone have any good thoughs on how to increase your load? im on 1g /wk of test and my load has gone from drench to dribble.

 

[uff]

i just dribble now too.unless ive went for like 3 days without getting to cum then it seems a normal amount

 

[Slick Arrado]

anyone have any good thoughs on how to increase your load? im on 1g /wk of test and my load has gone from drench to dribble.

Don't whack off as much. Or start taking Clomid.

 

[xzon]

clomid during the cycle? wont that negatively affect me somehow?

 

[xzon]

bump please

 

[Insane_Man]

clomid during the cycle? wont that negatively affect me somehow?

No.

 

[kneedowngsxr]

can you not get it up at all, or just occasionally? For example, if you are home alone watching porn can you get it up? Has this only happened when you are with her?

If you can still get it up at all, then you know your shit isnt broken.. its most likely in your head (the one with the brain) which is causing your problems.

I am 25, and just lost my virginity last year (waited forever), to a girl that Im totally in love with. The first couple of times that we wanted to have sex.. I was just flat nervous as hell (what if she doesnt like it, what if I suck, what if im too small, what if i come too fast) all that shit was runnin through my mind. I was thinking too much about shit, instead of just going with the flow, we tried a couple of times... and every time no dice. Id be all ready to go, moment got there... and willy went limp. Needless to say it was a bit embarrasing, but I knew it was just me being nervous, and I think she knew it too. She never really said anything, and then one night she climbed on top of me, and just slipped it in.. I didnt really think about it, wasnt nervous it just happened. Once we did it... i was ok, i was like... what was I so afraid of? Now im a fucking sex junky, and cant keep my hands off her. There has been a couple of occasions where I was ready to go... and she wasnt yet and by the time she was ready (wet) i wasnt really hard anymore. Just break out some astroglide (this shit feels amazing) usually takes me about 5 seconds with that shit to get Mr Happy all happy again.
Another thing that bothers me sometimes is condoms.... sometimes I cant feel shit when I have one on, so Ill enter her without one until Im really getting into it, then Ill put one on. Ive lost my hardon a couple of times right after, or during putting a condom on... again a little hand action (from me or her) with some lube, or some head and im usually good to go.

Wow this is getting long... anyways, I wouldnt freak about it yet. Just relax and enjoy the hottie you are with... and try not to think about "what if I go limp again" because as soon as you start that shit, youll be like 3 inches of cooked spaghetti.

Good luck.

 

[BADKITTY]

Another thing that bothers me sometimes is condoms.... sometimes I cant feel shit when I have one on, so Ill enter her without one until Im really getting into it, then Ill put one on.

That is the most ridiculous piece of advice I've ever heard. Why use one at all? I have two friends who have gotten pregnant from pre-cum. This is NOT a good idea. Also, your disease prevention is almost nil with this method. I'm surprised you haven't contracted something, or gotten your girl pregnant, or both...

 

[kneedowngsxr]

That is the most ridiculous piece of advice I've ever heard. Why use one at all? I have two friends who have gotten pregnant from pre-cum. This is NOT a good idea. Also, your disease prevention is almost nil with this method. I'm surprised you haven't contracted something, or gotten your girl pregnant, or both...

Relax relax bro.

First shes on the pill... so the condom is just an extra precaution. I figure the pill is what 99% or some shit.... Even without the pill the chance of pregnancy from just precum would be low. With the pill.... very low chance.
Secondly... for me disease prevention isnt an issue. Both my girl and I are clean shes been tested.. and I was a virgin before her... and there are no other partners involved... so our only issue is pregnancy. I just wear the condom so that if I do come inside her Im not shootin 100 million sperm at that egg.... I dont really want to test that 1% margin of error on the pill.

But ya.. maybe i should have clarified for those of us who may not really be clear on these things.