Different sexual experience

[Gossamer]

For reference, I've been on test cyp since July last year. My latest blood test from 2 1/2 weeks ago showed my estradiol(non-sensitive) was around 57, if I remember correctly. And since I got my results, I've taken two 1/4 mg doses of anastrozole.

Well anyways here's my situation. I made love to my wife last night, and it was much more intense than usual. The feeling was much better the whole time, but it took forever to have an orgasm. Then making love this morning, I experience the same kind of intensity again, and it also took forever to have an orgasm. But this morning was different. I don't know if I can describe it, but it felt like a deeper experience. Much more intimate. Very emotionally intense. My wife was amazingly beautiful to me.

Is it possible that having low t, has kept me from having the best sexual experience possible, and I'm just realizing it now? Why is it hitting me now after being on t for 6 months? And why the long time to reach orgasm?

Anyone have similar experiences?

 

[Mprtz]

I'd say it's absolutely possible. My marriage has been night and day since starting TRT...
Time to orgasm is very dependent on hormones and can be affected, but I don't know the details.

E2 of 57 is probably a little high. My guess is that part of what you are experiencing is passing through the optimum E2 level for you.

 

[Megatron28]

Your prolactin levels may have changed as well which affects your dopamine levels. If you are curious, run a prolactin lab to see if it is lower than normal for you.

 

[Megatron28]

Oh... on 'Ology it is "had sex" or explicative or euphemism of your choice. Not "making love". Don't make us take away your TRT card.

 

[Gossamer]

Oh... on 'Ology it is "had sex" or explicative or euphemism of your choice. Not "making love". Don't make us take away your TRT card.

But seriously, that's how deep it felt. My wife has been complaining for a while, that I show no emotions. Could it be that the lack of emotions was from low t? And now I may have normal emotions coming back again?

 

[Gossamer]

Your prolactin levels may have changed as well which affects your dopamine levels. If you are curious, run a prolactin lab to see if it is lower than normal for you.

I could get my prolactin tested, but I have no baseline to compare it to.

 

[Megatron28]

But seriously, that's how deep it felt. My wife has been complaining for a while, that I show no emotions. Could it be that the lack of emotions was from low t? And now I may have normal emotions coming back again?

What do you mean by show more emotions? Do you mean make more noise? Desire her more? Pound the shit out of her ass? Toss her around like a rag doll? Drive your penis in deep and hard? Pay more attention to her sexual desires and climax? Look her in the eye?

What does she think was different about it?

Could it just be that your lasted longer than usual which allowed her to get off finally? That would make for a better sexual experience for most women. Maybe you guys are having more sex now and this is improving your lasting time.

 

[jomamma007]

don't know why you think this is un-related to the arimidex you took bringing down your estrogen.
Low E usually takes forever to finish, but everyones different. As long as you feel good.
But yeah throughout cycles, pct, and trt I am different sexually with each. One I just want to nut, another I want to make sweet shakespearing love .

 

[Gossamer]

Megatron wrote:
What do you mean by show more emotions? Do you mean make more noise? Desire her more? Pound the shit out of her ass? Toss her around like a rag doll? Drive your penis in deep and hard? Pay more attention to her sexual desires and climax? Look her in the eye?

Sorry, I guess I wasn't too clear. When I said showing more emotions, I meant in life in general. Not during sex. Meaning she feels like I don't give a crap, and I need to care more. Completely unrelated to sex. But I just noticed my emotions manifesting themselves during sex this time.

Megatron wrote:
Could it just be that your lasted longer than usual which allowed her to get off finally? That would make for a better sexual experience for most women. Maybe you guys are having more sex now and this is improving your lasting time.

No. Usually we both last about the same. Again, see my answer to your quote above. Basically it seems I'm starting to give a shit more. Which makes it seem like I care more. And I think that's directly attributed to trt. I just need to get my estradiol dialed in, and keep on top of it by more frequent estradiol sensitive tests.

 

[jomamma007]

No. Usually we both last about the same. Again, see my answer to your quote above. Basically it seems I'm starting to give a shit more. Which makes it seem like I care more. And I think that's directly attributed to trt. I just need to get my estradiol dialed in, and keep on top of it by more frequent estradiol sensitive tests.

Before trt my test was low, resulting in lower estrogen. I was mainly irritable and angry. After being on trt for 4 weeks I started getting emotional as my estrogen increased from increased testosterone. I was happier and cared more about myself, life, and loved ones. In fact I went through a break up a few weeks before getting on trt and didn't give two shits. After a month of TRT I began to realize what I had done and what I had lost, which wasn't a coincidence.

 

[Megatron28]

Sorry, I guess I wasn't too clear. When I said showing more emotions, I meant in life in general. Not during sex. Meaning she feels like I don't give a crap, and I need to care more. Completely unrelated to sex. But I just noticed my emotions manifesting themselves during sex this time.


No. Usually we both last about the same. Again, see my answer to your quote above. Basically it seems I'm starting to give a shit more. Which makes it seem like I care more. And I think that's directly attributed to trt. I just need to get my estradiol dialed in, and keep on top of it by more frequent estradiol sensitive tests.

When you are hypogonadal, you are usually just too damn tired to care about anything other than sleeping. Sounds like you are just feeling the positive effects of getting your hormone levels back to normal.

 

[stevejay]

What do you mean by show more emotions? Do you mean make more noise? Desire her more? Pound the shit out of her ass? Toss her around like a rag doll? Drive your penis in deep and hard? Pay more attention to her sexual desires and climax? Look her in the eye?

What does she think was different about it?

Could it just be that your lasted longer than usual which allowed her to get off finally? That would make for a better sexual experience for most women. Maybe you guys are having more sex now and this is improving your lasting time.

LOL Megatron: Hey Goss what you are experiencing is all the male characteristics associated with testosterone replacement. You lose it all with low T. You are an alpha dog now dude enjoy and rip it up.....!!!