Dude, before you give in to peer pressure or whatever, please read this first:
http://www.steroidology.com/forum/anabolic-steroid-forum/156919-im-ready-gear-check-list.html
So you're eating a lot healthier and upping your calorie intake. By how much? When you say you're eating a lot healthier, do you mean that you're eating more greens, more lean meat, more soy milk, more tofu or what exactly? Eating too clean may not give you enough calories to get the mass you want. The balance of the major food groups may not be ideal. Listen to what the old ones are telling you and get 3J to hook up a diet plan for you. You can also check this out:
http://www.steroidology.com/forum/a...-reaching-your-goals-right-way-diet-baby.html
You said that:
"Im not stupid in the sense im juicing up without a decent foundation to build on. im going to try my hardest to reach my genetic potential and once i believe ive hit the wall; ill go on a cycle". I have a couple of questions for you: How exactly will you know whether you've hit the wall or not? How big do you wanna get anyway? Freaky bodybuilder huge or just MMA muscular fighter big?
Seeing as you have several family members who are experienced in these matters and that you guys have only been lifting for the past two years, have you asked their opinions on whether you and your brother have already reached your genetic potential? How big did your family members get training naturally before they started to juice?
What are the exercises that you, your brother and your friends do for each major muscle group? How many exercises do you do for each muscle group? What's the weight/set/rep range for each exercise and when do you decide when to increase the weight? Is the program you're on enough to make you grow? You might wanna check out the routines here first:
http://www.steroidology.com/forum/training-forum/56428-my-top-5-lifting-routines.html or if you feel that you've truly hit the wall in your lifts, check out this routine:
http://www.steroidology.com/forum/training-forum/661-5x5-routine.html
A lot of highschool powerlifters and young olympic weightlifters grew a lot just by training smart and eating.
In the end, you're gonna do what you're gonna do regardless of what anyone here says. I just hope that you do try your hardest to reach your genetic potential first and start juicing once you've hit the true "wall".