250mg, and 500mg aren't much different for me in terms of sexual desire. I will say though, I'm usually more sexually desirable to others when I'm on 500mg! (little beefier, denser, and more upbeat)
What I've found through my short years of life (25) is sex and the desire for it.. is pretty complex.
We can take things like Cialis or Viagra to enhance excitability, as in, we'll get harder easier and for me generally all day long (random boners). We can take things like Caber or Prami to inhibit the release of prolactin thus making it SUPER easy to accomplish back to back sessions in the bedroom (or other places
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) Those sound like fun additions.. but don't replace true desire.
I've broken up sexual desire into two sub categories, that together complete the lifelong desire we seek with one person, but also allows us to still experience temptation, and also be capable of drifting away from our "one and only" to fuck a random broad we met on a business trip.
Physical Attraction/Desire - This one is easy to explain. We see something we think would be a great fuck, and we want to chase it. I could meet 100 women that have the most terrible personalities but at the same time are total smokeshows, and still want to fuck them at least one time.
I have a deep emotional and physical attraction to the girl I'm with.. but when I see a ridiculously hot piece of strange walking around, I can't help but think up some nasty shit in my head! Some may find it necessary to relieve the physical desire with the strange, chase the tail, and rail it. Then realize.. meh, she's not really that great compared to what I have at home.
Some have committed to the life of physical attraction, and live purely on that. Few sessions with a single woman, and off she goes for good, on to the next one. No shame in it. We're all different, and we've all been through different shit!
Physical attraction is permanent (we'll always think that piece we hit was hot as fuck, we desired it somehow or another). Drug or Alcohol related circumstances do not count, as inhibitions are lowered! Physical Attraction/Desire can be overruled by Emotional Attraction/Respect.
Emotional Attraction/Respect
You found someone attractive, you've fucked, but after spending a day or so with them you realize they suck as a person. You may want to fuck a few more times because the physical attraction is still there though. Eventually however, this physical attraction will be overruled by your emotional attraction. Emotionally you can't respect her.. you hate who she is, or how she acts, and you used to be able to fuck through it.. but now.. you're bored of it. You still think she's physically attractive, but no longer want to hit it because you're emotionally turned off by her.
Alternatively, you've found someone attractive, you fuck them, and later on realize they're actually pretty cool. You seek out a relationship with them. It goes well for a while, you both have fun together, sex is great, but there are mannerisms or idiosyncrasies that you're growing tired of. She barks orders at people in public as if they have no value to her other than to be a servant. She speaks to her parents with total disrespect. You deal with it for months.. but eventually you're realized it's hard to respect this person.. to be emotionally attracted to them, love them, or really care about what happens to them for the rest of their life.. You still think they are attractive to the eye, but your brain doesn't work in only 1 way, and the other sectors are exhausted and out of touch.. You default to no desire for sex, and come to a crossroads in the relationship. Request she changes, fuck other people until she finds out, or get out now..
OR
You find someone great. Really great. To the eye, to people, to you, and honestly cares about things you care about.. or pretends to. Someone who holds physical and emotional value to you. Someone that you look at every day and want to strip naked, but also feel comfortable talking to about anything. Mutually invested in each other in all aspects of life. To some this seems impossible.. but generally we look in the wrong places. This person though, this will be the person that you can sexually desire ALL THE TIME. You will become so emotionally invested to them, will have came up from a deep physical attraction, AND have total respect for who they are after spending a great deal of time together.
This is my young opinion on what true love is and how we find it. The method is easy. Meet someone. Have fun in the physical stage. Develop feelings if you like what you're hittin. If you start losing respect for them (provided you've asked them to change and why), drop it, move on and cut your losses. There are plenty out there to choose from, and generally we all get hooked on garbage too easy because we tie our lives to theirs too early and feel comfortable or stuck.
I think there will always be physical attraction and sexual desire toward other people, regardless of the intensity/love in your relationship with another individual. Temptation if you will, will never go away. I can have multiple sessions at home with the woman, walk into work, see someone I think is sexy, and be ready to roll with her in 5 if I wanted. I don't.. but you get the picture. If I committed to a cheat.. it'd be to ensure I didn't do it again for a long time anyway. (Kind of like in dieting.. cheat, but make it sooo bad you won't feel like doing it again for a while) I haven't done it myself.. so I'm sure if it was good there would be some complications there.. lol ANYWAY!!
If you're having problems with Sexual Desire.. find out what's turning you off from wanting to fuck. Do you have a problem with the person you're with? Do you think they're physically attractive? Emotionally? Do you respect them?
If no to most.. I'd get out or approach the person with your concerns.
Long posts tonight for me. Love typing lately.. Hope I've helped!
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