Love stinks.

Go for it man. It's better to fail than to have regrets. That's not a big age difference anyway as long as she's mature.
 
Go for it man. It's better to fail than to have regrets. That's not a big age difference anyway as long as she's mature.

I have regrets for my past. I will not have regrets for my future. I will at least give it my everything, then the rest is fate and God.
 
Good deal bro. Ahh to be in young lust again. Oh wait a second I'm 26 LOL. Ya man people are ignorant these days. A man's handshake used to mean his word nowadays it means nothing. I can't tell you how many times I pick up older folks. If i see an older person waking with groceries in the blistering cold ot breaks my heart. I pick them up and drive them.home. I've must of ridden about 20 different people home this year. There's not a lot of people that would do that. I always do!! That's just what kind of guy I am. Hey granny you.need a ride. As I flip up my visor on my crotch rocket. LOL they say no. LOL. Maybe someday they will. I'm 0 for like a 100 but they usually say yeah when I'm in my truck
 
Good deal bro. Ahh to be in young lust again. Oh wait a second I'm 26 LOL. Ya man people are ignorant these days. A man's handshake used to mean his word nowadays it means nothing. I can't tell you how many times I pick up older folks. If i see an older person waking with groceries in the blistering cold ot breaks my heart. I pick them up and drive them.home. I've must of ridden about 20 different people home this year. There's not a lot of people that would do that. I always do!! That's just what kind of guy I am. Hey granny you.need a ride. As I flip up my visor on my crotch rocket. LOL they say no. LOL. Maybe someday they will. I'm 0 for like a 100 but they usually say yeah when I'm in my truck

Tis not lust at all actually. Dirty thoughts have not crossed my mind. Its something, different lol.
 
The sun won't shine forever but as long as it's here, we might as well shine together.




things for you to buy....candles,strawberries,chocolate fondue! rubbers..;)
 
Just remember, YOU are the man of the relationship...you gotta take the initiative and the risks.

Show her your humorous side and play it a little cocky..girls like that demeanor, the funny side shows that you can keep her happy while the slightly cocky side shows that you are the man..:D

Good luck and be the alpha!!
 
Just remember, YOU are the man of the relationship...you gotta take the initiative and the risks.

Show her your humorous side and play it a little cocky..girls like that demeanor, the funny side shows that you can keep her happy while the slightly cocky side shows that you are the man..:D

Good luck and be the alpha!!

Oh I plan to. Were going to a 50's diner this weekend :D

Only issue is it may be me, her, and her sister. But her sister is in on it now so lol.

She is already excited I am going to take her shooting for the first time sometime soon. And she wants me, her, her sis, and my buddy to all go on a cross country trip in a few months :biggthump
 
All kidding aside Zero, When I was around your age I was a bit wild, and was really tired of the life I was living, I met Mrs P and I knew she was it, I was ready to settle down, What I'm trying to say is, you know when u meet the right girl, so if she's the one for u, you definitely know... cause nothing else matters.
 
All kidding aside Zero, When I was around your age I was a bit wild, and was really tired of the life I was living, I met Mrs P and I knew she was it, I was ready to settle down, What I'm trying to say is, you know when u meet the right girl, so if she's the one for u, you definitely know... cause nothing else matters.

Does not being able to sleep, not being able to do anything at work, and not being able to do anything else count, all while having butterflies count?

I normally "de-stress" with some games, honestly I am contemplating selling all that crap and never using it again.

Simply have this inspired feeling, like I have always been more than I told myself.

Man I hope this is the one, if not I hate to see the depression that would follow all of this!

I have never really been wild. Always kind of desired the family scene. I like serving people with love(supporting them, helping, etc). I tried acting hard for awhile but wore me out because it wasn't me.

Thanks for all the conversation guys lol. Its keeping my mind sane. I am constantly worried when it comes time for me to make a more solidifying move it wont work lol. I always looked down on myself though.
 
Does not being able to sleep, not being able to do anything at work, and not being able to do anything else count, all while having butterflies count?

I normally "de-stress" with some games, honestly I am contemplating selling all that crap and never using it again.

Simply have this inspired feeling, like I have always been more than I told myself.

Man I hope this is the one, if not I hate to see the depression that would follow all of this!

I have never really been wild. Always kind of desired the family scene. I like serving people with love(supporting them, helping, etc). I tried acting hard for awhile but wore me out because it wasn't me.

Thanks for all the conversation guys lol. Its keeping my mind sane. I am constantly worried when it comes time for me to make a more solidifying move it wont work lol. I always looked down on myself though.

Well Brother I don't want to go full "homo" here, but I just knew it was it for me, I was wild for lack of a better word, I had gone through some crap & was acting out, A "phase" maybe, all I can tell u is that I was really hoping I find a girl like her, Your lucky when u find someone that has all the qualities your looking for in your mate..
and more..

And let me just say, she made me feel like I never had before, I'm a lucky man and I know that.

Your still very young, so my advise is to continue seeing her, and see how things turn out, don't preassure yourself, take one day at time.. hope it works out for u.
 
Well Brother I don't want to go full "homo" here, but I just knew it was it for me, I was wild for lack of a better word, I had gone through some crap & was acting out, A "phase" maybe, all I can tell u is that I was really hoping I find a girl like her, Your lucky when u find someone that has all the qualities your looking for in your mate..
and more..

And let me just say, she made me feel like I never had before, I'm a lucky man and I know that.

Your still very young, so my advise is to continue seeing her, and see how things turn out, don't preassure yourself, take one day at time.. hope it works out for u.
ya brother you two are perfect for each other. The way Yoi two talk about each other is great. I hope one day I have that as well. Ny girl now is a little iffy. I thought she was great for me at first . Than later down the road I'm second guessing myself. What really sucks is she has like two friends that are always busy. So she wants to spend everyday every second with me gets on my nerves. Me on another hand happens to be pretty popular so I havr a lot of friends. I try to keep them all even buy she gets mad when i hang with them a lot and the boys get mad when I don't hang with them. Sucks I'm pretty much easy to get along with and would do anything for anyone. Nice guys finish last. That's y my new motto is hard Dick em and karate kick em. Lol
 
All kidding aside Zero, When I was around your age I was a bit wild, and was really tired of the life I was living, I met Mrs P and I knew she was it, I was ready to settle down, What I'm trying to say is, you know when u meet the right girl, so if she's the one for u, you definitely know... cause nothing else matters.

See Zero - you have it from Mr and Mrs P.

I was 26 and my wife was 21 when we started dating ... "she actually asked me out - I had no idea she liked me."

We've been together for 19 years and married for 13.

All this time - we've never separated from the very first date - and I was somewhat like Mr P ... a little wild when we first met ... "OK, a lot wild."

I would go for it!

There's an old saying...

When's the "best" time to kiss your girl...

... "before someone else does!"
 
I guess what may be different for me than you guys is that I went a religious route and never have been "Wild". I explode if you get me into a sport/competition, I will do crazy things at random... but never been a wild in a drinking, party, girls kinda way.

Been looking for "The One" from the start. Just how I am tempered. I just down myself because I am not where I want to be in life so I always think I am never good enough lol.

So I have hung out with this girl some more. My buddy swears that its there and she likes me. I am horrible at reading it beyond the very noticeable ones(such as the windows). I may call her tomorrow because she mentioned playing a board game at her house(their entire family is extremely smart, all the girls look like models, and they all like the odd things, and they are all health based people).

She told me she is going into Pre-med. So now I am kind of intimidated. I am just a 25 year old guy getting BACK into college to clean up my life. -.-

5 years ago I had a free ride through college and threw it away over the my ex who messed me up mentally(my own fault for being mentally weak). Now I am ready to rebuild it all and wham the girl of my dreams walks in the door and I have to overcome anxiety of not being good enough to try and get her affection lol.

BTW, I have been surviving on two small cups of Ezekiel grains+oats organic cereal all week... I cant eat lol. Anxiety ate my stomach. I squeezed a yogurt in there as well though for today.

I cant eat, but oddly enough I have more energy it seems. Weird? And it may not be entirely bad, my stomach pain/acid issues I was having have actually dissipated lol.

But I need to get eating again. My friends are enjoying this far too much(me finally being love struck) but it stinks to be the one in the game.

Thanks every one for the support. I am really hoping I can give a positive post sometime soon.

BUT I will say this. All of this has got me back in the right mental mindset and I am going to be going to college even if its out of pocket(wont do loans). I actually will finally be taking my NASM test so I can have the cert for that. And may go to another college(Ohio Christian University) as well for ministry on the side. Its going to be progress from now on for me.
 
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Meh -.-

Guess I should not shoot as high.

Not that its a 100% no, but it is a "Not likely at this time" and chances are she will find someone better than me situation IMO.

So, out and about I go lol.
 
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