Monday is the day D-Day countdown begins.

TonySuicideKing

The 'Ology Man Whore
Made the bitch go get the appointment setup... Its killing me trying to be pleasant with her... its only been 2 days now from finding out and its like Satan just up an crawled into her vagina.

So the appointment is set, get the official time line of how far along an when expected shit is. Getting everything setup so when that baby pops out it gets a paternity test right away. For some odd reason i still dont trust her. And if it is officially mine I will be taking custody of it, I'm not leaving the kid in that type of household environment.

I'm trying to bite the lip with her and make everything "somewhat" peaceful between the two of us... Trying to quit smoking and this incident.... are 2 wrong combinations lol. Trying to look for a different job, since its clear im going to need something with a bit more income and stability.

-sigh- which one of the fellow members of ology wants to give me a "back ally" visectamine LMAO!
 
she can use steroids against you to get custody,so Id play nice with her if she knows anything and it is your child bc that would be pretty hard to explain your self and can get ugly quick.

And I understand venting bro but why put your self out there on an open and public forum..?
 
she can use steroids against you to get custody,so Id play nice with her if she knows anything and it is your child bc that would be pretty hard to explain your self and can get ugly quick.

And I understand venting bro but why put your self out there on an open and public forum..?

eh, a few people on here i chill with here an there. idk... im always open about everything, maybe that is a downfall with me... But she doesnt know ive done the juice. only 2 close friends ive known since birth and my dad an brother know im on it, cause we all take it.
 
Hey Tony,

How does the girl feel about this baby ? Does she want to keep it ?
These circumstances are kind of sad for the baby, so many babies are brought into the world by a parents that didn't put too much thought into how their actions affect their lives, and most importantly the babies life.

But you can't turn back time, just learn from this experience & remember to keep in mind what ever you do from now on, will have an impact in your child's life for ever.

You seem not to be a bad guy you're open & honest, even when what you say makes you look bad & others criticize you. You've just made your share of bad choices.

Just make a change in your life for the better, remember nobody is perfect & maybe you can use your past experiences in your favor later on in life to teach your child not to make those mistakes.

Hope everything works out 4 u, after all no matter what having a child will change you for life...:)
 
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The girl wants to keep it, and shes doing it for all the wrong reasons. She's like one of those creeper girls you see on tv. She's going to keep the kid cause she thinks I'm going to get together with her and "supposedly" marry her. It's like OH HELL NO LOL! Just cause I made a mistake I'm not going to marry you, so you can take half of my shit, and make me be miserable for the rest of my life. I have no problem dealing with the kid myself, thats not an issue... every day thats been passing since the news, its getting a little better with knowing whats going to be happening. I just dont think its the right time to bring a child into this world.

Not just cause of my thoughts or opinions. Not cause of the economy, or me just being too young still. Its cause the girl is doing it for all the wrong reasons. Literally I talked with her yesterday, and what she said is one of many reasons why I just want to take custody. She wants the baby for the reason she wouldnt have to work, she can sit at home and collect food-stamps and housing assistance for mothers. She just disgusts me, like WOW, didnt think you were going to fit with the other thousands of girls I hear about this shit on the news.

I understand I wont be able to get custody of the baby till its past the nurturing stage, where it needs to be breast fed an what not, but I'm not going to let her ruin the kids life. Like if I actually went into detail on what goes on in that household, I would bet 100% of the people on this forum would be disgusted also.
 
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