My husband wants to do what!!

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My thing is this, you don't have much of a marriage if you cant be honest with your spouse. If you distrust your spouse that much then do each other a favor and go separate ways. I wouldn't even dream of starting a cycle and hiding it from my wife. Sorry if I offend anyone but that's my 2 cents.

What he said. If you hide it she will wonder what else your hiding and never fully trust you again.