Need help with a GIRL... IMPORTANT!

trick081

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**KINDA LONG, BUT I NEED DESPERATE HELP!**


Alright fellas and gals, here's the deal...

I met this girl like 3 weeks ago at a party up here at college, and ever since then, we have stayed in contact. I didn't know her at the time, but she knew me as the "hot guy from the gym" (LOL)... Anyways...I'll get a little more detailed here...

Hung out with her once together after a party, went back to my place for a couple hours, and just kicked it. She has basically been really cool with me and pretty straight forward with me by making me think she wants my nuts. She's hot as hell, and definately worth the time. The thing is, she's been seeing a guy for the past 2 months, and she is telling me for the past 2 weeks, she's going to toss his ass.

Welp...hasnt happened yet I don't believe. Anyways, I called her a few times, and she's called me a few times, and we kick it at parties a little when we are both out, but all of a sudden one weekend, everything was chill and cool between us, and then she said she was going to call me the next day...SHE DIDN'T. That was on SUNDAY. I said WTF, and said fuck it, and didn't call her to see what the deal was. WEDNESDAY rolled around and she called me that night, and left me a message saying "I really want to talk to you, and i want you to call me back when you get this..." I was like...OK So i called her back.

We talk on the phone a few times a week for a while and have good conversations and all...

Everything was fine until the next weekend. She called me a few times during the day and was talking about hanging out together and stuff, but it didnt happen. FUCK! I feel like im kinda getting the run-around kinda. She's always telling me she wants to kick it, but we don't kick it one on one. She didnt call me back in over a day, so i don't know what to expect now guys...Is she gonna wait a few more days and call me? And act like everythings cool?

Anypone been in my position here? I need help! Thanks!

PS I really like this girl, but don't want to call her like a stalker...what should I do?!?!

OH YEAH... if this helps... She calls me Hun and Honey and shit like that...Things I like to hear ;)
 
my first guess is she is young :) no offense sweetie.. but she probably has no idea what she wants..
aside from that, she probably wants her cake and eat it too if you know what i mean lol..

IMO, you have 2 options here: (and a bonus 3rd) lol

1) call her and say " what's up.. am i going to see you or what?"... the straight forward approach which will allow you to see where you stand a bit more

2) back off, play it cool and make her come after you... then if she does, ya also know where you stand.. but like what is already happening, it can be frustrating or take awhile...

3)this is the "player" option lol.. god i remember these days!!!
Make sure she sees you out at a party with lots of girls flirting with you and you the center of attention.. But while flirting with the other girls.. make sure to make some killer eye contact with her!!! women always want what they can't have or want what other women want...
Remember.. YOU are the hot guy from the gym lol.. so don't make yourself too available or easy!! A little challange is a fun thing... this is a sly way to do things and i will probably get some women pissed for saying this.. but hell.. it is how i always used to be :) lol
"Don't hate the player.. hate the game" lmao :) hahaha...

GOOD LUCK SWEETIE!!!
 
And damn she gave you some amazing advice, smh I hate it when ppl hand out the secrets.

Also dont call her, text her, its much easier saying something on text than saying it on the phone and if shes shy shell be more likely to reply to a message than a phonecall.
 
Super girl took the words out of my mouth.
I think this girl is just keeping you around so when the other guy isn't there u are.
That's just my opinion.
 
young is right..Some young girls are just STUPID lol..

I think she is playing you personally...But let her come to you. Don't be calling her all the time. These are the mistakes I made in the past.
 
Hottie...

:40oz: Hit it and move on...what's the problem, chica? R u lookin to marry this bimbo ur what? Hit & run babe, hit & run! She's seeing another hooha, and she's out lookin'...wtf?.....HIT IT!
 
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i'm with jack on this one. if she'll play around on her man she'll play you too. take what she offers and dont get attached
 
:yesway: i give supergirl the handshake for saying it all!!!!!!!!
 
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