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[mp5navy187]

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I'm not a parent im only 24 but this dude is crazy?

 

[darkside06]

I think it's funny as hell!

 

[hard2gain]

Major over reaction! The girl even did her chores. You can't go around shooting things out of anger.

 

[Zero V]

This dude is father of the year to me. THIS is the kind of things I believe more parents should do.

Disrespecting parents like she did by writing that needs punishment. She was not harmed, not spanked, nothing. She simply lost material possessions that were HIS PROPERTY.

This is the kind of things you do, that keep your daughter from becoming a cum dumpster, gang banger, useless slut IMO because you show the the penalties of choices.

 

[hard2gain]

Zero V I totally disagree with you! This is the kind of thing a father does that makes her completely hate him. Not only did he shoot the laptop but he made a video of it for millions to see. Plus she's gonna be grounded for a long time it sounds like and he calls her a lazy piece of shit. This is only gonna cause daddy problems with her and she will have no respect for men or herself which most of the time equals cum dumpster gutter slut.

 

[darkside06]

This dude is father of the year to me. THIS is the kind of things I believe more parents should do.

Disrespecting parents like she did by writing that needs punishment. She was not harmed, not spanked, nothing. She simply lost material possessions that were HIS PROPERTY.

This is the kind of things you do, that keep your daughter from becoming a cum dumpster, gang banger, useless slut IMO because you show the the penalties of choices.

I agree.

Zero V I totally disagree with you! This is the kind of thing a father does that makes her completely hate him. Not only did he shoot the laptop but he made a video of it for millions to see. Plus she's gonna be grounded for a long time it sounds like and he calls her a lazy piece of shit. This is only gonna cause daddy problems with her and she will have no respect for men or herself which most of the time equals cum dumpster gutter slut.

I really don't think it's that big of a deal. She disrespected him, humiliated him and her mother......so he humliated her a bit. She wasn't abused, beaten, or harmed.

When i was a kid....if i fucked up, i gotspanked! Society as a whole has changed so much over the years that parents are afraid to discpline their kids beccause of the fear of being ridiculed for it.

 

[hard2gain]

[/QUOTE] really don't think it's that big of a deal. She disrespected him, humiliated him and her mother......so he humliated her a bit. She wasn't abused, beaten, or harmed.

When i was a kid....if i fucked up, i gotspanked! Society as a whole has changed so much over the years that parents are afraid to discpline their kids beccause of the fear of being ridiculed for it.[/QUOTE]

Huge difference between spanking and humiliating your kid in public and then grounding them for LONG periods of time over something so small especially.

I do believe in spanking and making your kids respect you. But the way this father dealt with it was extremely immature and I will bet it ruins their relationship. Not just for a few months it will permanently damage it and her opinion of him.

It takes a whole lot less than child abuse to damage a kid when raising them. I was never abused but my father ruined our relationship with things he said and did that weren't too far from this. I was 16 when this happened and I pushed him completely out of my life, which is an important time to have a father.

I can honestly say he has completely changed and our relationship is much better now. Hell I have one of the best father son relationships in the world now but it would've never been this way if I hadn't distanced myself from him and made him realize he can't treat me that way. I think this girl needs the same.

 

[PedestrianX]

I bet the daughter wont go making another disrespectful post about her father on the internet again.

 

[Zero V]

IF she is intelligent, and has a shot in the world, this will NOT ruin her relationship with him.

He seemed to posses a mind if he is in the IT business, so hopefully she does too. This is not a bad punishment, this is nothing. If this ruins her relationship with him, then she is a chemically imbalanced lost cause already and he should have started sooner.

If she is capable to be taught the reason behind the actions, she will be perfectly fine.

My parents were made to go rip long solid branches off trees(thin ones though) to be used as switches to beat the hell out of their back ends to the point they could not sit for several hours. They both dearly loved their parents.

I have had my arse split open with a belt. I have had toys I loved dearly stomped and ripped apart because I disobeyed, my brother had his hot wheels turned into flat pieces of plastic/metal. We love our parents dearly.

If she is intelligent, she will be fine. If she is mentally inept, then nothing in the world nor him NOT shooting the laptop would have gave her a better shot in the world.

My father did harsh things, but it made me into a good man, one with values, and respect. And those values are what have earned me high places, and respect in return from people around me.

People today are weak, they are weak in many ways. And that is one of the problems we have.

How is shooting her laptop hurting her? Seriously, explain it to me? Now she has to deal without her access to pornography, to anonymity(which turns people into idiots and cowards), illegal routes to download music, social networking which lessens peopls respect for individualism and privacy more and more.

IF she has a report to do, research that needs done, or a paper to write she can do it at the library. She will remember this lesson for along time, and that is the point.

Hard2gain, you are the first person I have seen yet, out of maybe 80 people that will disagree with his choice. The man is a throwback to the days of Real parenting.

 

[mp5navy187]

Zero V I totally disagree with you! This is the kind of thing a father does that makes her completely hate him. Not only did he shoot the laptop but he made a video of it for millions to see. Plus she's gonna be grounded for a long time it sounds like and he calls her a lazy piece of shit. This is only gonna cause daddy problems with her and she will have no respect for men or herself which most of the time equals cum dumpster gutter slut.

I agree I mean dont put your in house problems on the internet... ANd isnt facebook like a journal to express ones problems? I dont blame her for addressing her problems to her dad, look at he how he acted over a stupid harmless facebook post from a 15 yearold... I mean come on fuckin shot her labtop come on?

 

[mp5navy187]

Im just disagreeing with how he handle it... Im 24 years old... My dad is a navy mp vet. Ive had it rough even when he saw that clip of he felt bad for the girl regardless of a 15 year old girl vented on "FACEBOOK" lol he was just stund he shot up the labtop....

 

[PedestrianX]

Majority of kids in north america are spoiled these days. Lazy and grow up with the attitude they are owed and entitled to whatever. Parents are setting up their kids and the world for failure by enforcing and instilling that attitude. Just my opinion.

 

[mp5navy187]

Its FACEBOOK!! lol who cares what was said....

 

[hard2gain]

My point isn't that him taking the computer from her was wrong. I agree with that part. It's the fact that all she did is make a post venting... Immature yes but thats what 15 year old girls due. This grown ass man had to take himself to an immature 15 year old girls level and one up her to punish her daughter in front of millions!

Being punished (within reason) has never ruined a relationship between child and parents. But nobody deserves to have their name dragged through the dirt and be called a lazy pig in front of millions by their own parent. She's only 15 years old for gods sake her parents need to be there for support and discipline not to destroy her. And don't kid yourself any 15 year old girl would be destroyed, not by the discipline but by the uncalled for embarrassment in front of the entire world.

 

[essays]

I have to agree with Zero V. When I was a kid, I got a smack when I stepped out of line (and I deserved it, and I'm probably better for it). Nowadays things are different, and social discipline is decidedly more effective than physical.

I like his approach.

 

[Sassytassie84]

From a woman and a mother's perspective; he went overboard. Plain and simple. Yes, you should not stand for your children (or anyone for that matter) to disrespect you. Correct me if I am wrong, but, isn't he doing the same thing to her that he is mad at her for doing in the first place? Not only is he publicly humiliating her in front of friends and family, but also in front of the rest of the world. Granted, she deserves to receive some sort of punishment. BUT Lead by example. You cannot expect your children to learn anything from you if you, yourself do what you do not want them to do. You don't want your kid to drink? Do not drink in front of them. Don't want them to publicly embarrass you on a social network? Take the social network away but don't go and embarrass them back. Its the pot calling the kettle black. Idk, just my opinion. I never hit my son and never will, especially out of frustration. I think that teaches him to hit out of anger, I teach him to think about what it is he is doing that is wrong so he actually learns his lessons rather than be counter productive and cause more issues than the original problem was to begin with.

Maybe, just maybe.... if her father gave her a different outlet to vent when she is angry she wouldn't use fb as her way. Maybe she knows her dad well enough to know that talking to him (instead of FB) is useless.

 

[PedestrianX]

But nobody deserves to have their name dragged through the dirt and be called a lazy pig in front of millions by their own parent. She's only 15 years old for gods sake her parents need to be there for support and discipline not to destroy her. And don't kid yourself any 15 year old girl would be destroyed, not by the discipline but by the uncalled for embarrassment in front of the entire world.

She did the EXACT same thing to her father. The man who feeds and provides for her food safety and watever else spoiled little shits demand these days...

 

[mp5navy187]

She did the EXACT same thing to her father. The man who feeds and provides for her food safety and watever else spoiled little shits demand these days...

It's facebook lol its like a personal diary and she just wanted to vent I'm sure didn't mean any harm...

 

[Osta-Marketing]

LOL!!!!! hahahaha I've got daughters and I went through the same damn thing. Wow what a battle it was at 15 and up. I applaud that dad it takes extreme measures sometimes to get an extreme change. I was laughing so hard when he shot that laptop because I carry a gun. I think at times I thought about shooting my daughters phone when she would be texting away at christmas and thanksgiving instead of spending time with the family. All she wanted to do is be with her criminal boyfriend because he was cool and not with her parents that bought her the same damn phone she wont stop texting on because she thought she had a right too lol

I more than once took that damn phone away. So I feel that dad in the vid.

yahhhhhhhhhhhhhh.......

 

[Zero V]

Its FACEBOOK!! lol who cares what was said..

This is a problem with America today. Apathy. A persons word is the only thing they have in this world. If their words are corrupt, so are they.

She disrespected the people who have dedicated their lives to ensuring she grows up healthy and safe. He took away an electronic toy... Simply as that.

Americas problem today, is everything has to be "Politically correct".

Best bet my kids will know right from wrong. Say one of them went drinking and driving, I would cover one of their cars that I bought them(if its a beater) in Thermite and light the thing on fire in a field so it turns into dust while they watch.

You need to teach kids the extremes of life young. Otherwise later in life when they experience the extreme realities, it may be life in prison, or kid to raise unexpectedly, or AIDs.