Alright follow me on this.
The first 2 years its ass up in the air, every position, place, car, kitchen, park, desk,
work place, restaurant, bathroom and so on.
Then things slows a bit. After about year 3 its starts getting more in the bedroom and instead of 2 hours it tapers to about 20 -30 minutes.
Year 4 drifts just a bit to twice a week but steady at 20-30 minutes.
Meanwhile your are jucin like a raped ape and spankin chim chim every other day like a squirrl on meth.
Year 5 tapers to once every two weeks and you are still killin a kleenex box a month
And so this is the slow morph of your sex life.
Now that aint the end of it. All that boom boom time gets replaced with something equally valuable:
Holdin hands walking by the river
quality conversations
Gettin deeper into each others soul and heart.
Curlin up on the couch.
Becoming an unseperable team.
Building an unshakeable trust. Knowing that whatever comes down the pike your girl has got your back and you have hers.
We played things a bit different. We stopped having sex 2 years before our marriage so we could honor the Lord and
attempt to be closer to His desires at the time of our vows. Consequently that was more important that going ass over tin cups in the bedroom.
It came at a price but reaped tremendous dividends in our commitment, trust and foundation.
I know.....it aint for everybody. But it worked very well for us. Consequently, sex is suplimented with other things mentioned above.
This stuff comes as you get older. When you are walkin around with wood in your twenties and early thirties abstinance is the last thing that you are thinkin about.
As you get older like I said before- pussy aint everything.
Thats ma story and I'm stickin to it.
I'm sure you're really good looking, hence the dozen or so online dates....only exceptionally good looking people have to resort to online dating....lolololololololololol!
What's next, you'll beat us all up? hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha
and picklebunny I totally hear you. Thats called peace of mind. And yes thats what it's all about. And when pussys not always on your mind imagine how many other things you can do.lol
Unfortunately i dont think the guy holding hands walking to the river getting into each others heart and soul will ever be me.
I kind of get tired of the same piece within a few months now, as ive gotten older it seems to have became worse. However with that being said the latest chick has been with me for over a year.
it's funny because i find myself to be the one who gives the excuse of a headache now. And oh my luv aren't you glad theres so much more to our relationship than sex.lol
i usually tell her that on sunday mornings when i'm tucking her into bed and telling her to sleep in and rest while I sneak down stairs to have some dirty time with the hustler channel.
And when pussys not always on your mind imagine how many other things you can do.lol
Unfortunately i dont think the guy holding hands walking to the river getting into each others heart and soul will ever be me.
I kind of get tired of the same piece within a few months now, as ive gotten older it seems to have became worse. However with that being said the latest chick has been with me for over a year.
it's funny because i find myself to be the one who gives the excuse of a headache now. And oh my luv aren't you glad theres so much more to our relationship than sex.lol
i usually tell her that on sunday mornings when i'm tucking her into bed and telling her to sleep in and rest while I sneak down stairs to have some dirty time with the hustler channel.
Now, this^^^ is funny.
I also get bored in relationships, and maybe thats why I haven't done well in them in the past. Not so much bored with the idea of being in a relationship or bored with the person, but bored with their attempts to control me and and the stuff I've got. Men who are married or in serious relationships probably wouldn't admit it, but I think that many relationships eventually get to be like this, and if you don't do what she wants its constant naggin' and bitchin' and a whole bunch of other problems and issues. I don't like stress.
Also, depending on your circumstances you have to be careful about who you're planning to fall in love with and live happily ever after because a lot of those bitches out there are heartless gold diggers on the inside. I've met quite a few. I also have friends who are going through a lot of shit right now because of this. These guys are in their 30s and 40s and earn very good income, and unless they told you you'd never guess that some of them are in a financial squeeze. Why? Because they have girlfriends, wives, and even multiple ex-wives who're cleaning them out. These bitches love vacations, gold, diamonds, designer clothes, and BMWs and Mercedes cars so they can show off themselves to their friends but they have no fucking clue what it means to have a job and work hard for money.
Those guys are retards for giving in to all that shit. Its no ones fault but there own.
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