Bodybuilders psychology. Question for you guys.

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I am currently and 18 year old in high school. I am the biggest kid in school right now with lean muscle. Now I realize that people think their own ways and everyone is different, but for some reason, I look at a person with the slightest bit of muscle and I think they are bigger then me. I went up to one kid that I though looked WAY bigger then me and I was asking him for advice and the said "Dude you are so much freaking bigger then me, why are you asking me for advice?" Now I am not insecure or anything I just don't understand why I do this? When there is other people, for example MATT, that thinks he is bigger and better looking then a ton of people that he isn't, not to call you out matt just using you as an example. Just everyone in school asks me if I am taking steroids and if I can help them get them and I just don't understand my mentality. Any thoughts on this would be great.
 
Well don't go asking him for advice! He will have olive oil running through your veins for 15 weeks! Lol
 
Oh, my sides.

Seriously, I don't know. I go to meets and I see guys that I think are going to be in my weight class (198 or 220) and they'll be 181s. Guys that turn out to be in my weight class I'm like "lol, look at this giant freak! must be 242 at least."

slight case of manorexia maybe.

Conversely I get super self-conscious about being too big sometimes when I'm in a crowd or "normals".
 
Must be a popular guy if my name gets thrown in a thread outta nowhere lol
And tbone is just some fat fuck that sits on the internet pretending to be big loke incredible hulk, on here 24 hours a day, do u even work or pump iron is my question, why are u so affraid to post apic of yourself if u appear to be a superhero freak show?
 
Matt, grow the Fuck up.

T bone...haha...you're a fatty! Lmao. Sorry,I had to.

Op, we all do it. Some more extreme like yourself, but I go to the gym and think I'm the smallest guy there and then get dudes I think are huge asking me how to get big.

We bodybuilder just never think we look good enough. It's not a bad thing. It just means you're hungry to get better. You're alleys thinking there is more to learn, more that's out there. Embrace it and ask as many questions as you need to, even if you end up being the bigger better looking person than who you ask.
 
Matt, grow the Fuck up.

T bone...haha...you're a fatty! Lmao. Sorry,I had to.

Op, we all do it. Some more extreme like yourself, but I go to the gym and think I'm the smallest guy there and then get dudes I think are huge asking me how to get big.

We bodybuilder just never think we look good enough. It's not a bad thing. It just means you're hungry to get better. You're alleys thinking there is more to learn, more that's out there. Embrace it and ask as many questions as you need to, even if you end up being the bigger better looking person than who you ask.
I guess you are right, I am 13% bodyfat and I think I look like shit, and the people around me tell me that I make them feel bad because if I think I look like shit then I must think they look fucking terrible. So is this a case where I will never be satisfied with the way I look?
 
Must be a popular guy if my name gets thrown in a thread outta nowhere lol
And tbone is just some fat fuck that sits on the internet pretending to be big loke incredible hulk, on here 24 hours a day, do u even work or pump iron is my question, why are u so affraid to post apic of yourself if u appear to be a superhero freak show?

Yea, you've really made a name for yourself posting pics and ignorant shit. You don't look much better then your first pic. You've been at it for over two years! I like the squat video! Lol Matt, your basically a walking punch line. I don't know anybody who takes u seriously at all. Go get help.
 
Its all in your mind homie. You see yourself probably a lot, EVERYDAY. If youre like most, youre probably your worst critic too. Im the biggest where i work but sometimes i feel small. Like mentioned above, itll keep you motivated to keep getting bigger. Eat, lift, and think big brother
 
I know I'm not big. But I must act like it or something, Because I always get the "what's up big guy and nod at the gym". Honestly it kinda pisses me off because I think their being disrespectful.
But than I find myself flexing in the mirror thinking I'm fucking hulk.

It's a mind fuck for sure.
 
When im in the gym with other dudes that lift I always feel small even when im bigger than those guys. When I go out on the weekends or something and im around all my friends who dont even lift I feel like the hulk.
 
Yea, you've really made a name for yourself posting pics and ignorant shit. You don't look much better then your first pic. You've been at it for over two years! I like the squat video! Lol Matt, your basically a walking punch line. I don't know anybody who takes u seriously at all. Go get help.
Your some funny ass shit tbone, atleast u get a finger pump
 
Your an embarrassment...

Im the big guy at work but its like a disadvantage. I gotta lift this or move that. Kinda sucks. I dont really think I'm huge but compared to guys at work and Matt, I guess so.
 
Well, I'm no expert, but I don't think anybody here has high estrogen. How about we all just compare penis sizes instead? Mine's like a couple of feet, but I haven't measured since I was a little kid
 
Well, I'm no expert, but I don't think anybody here has high estrogen. How about we all just compare penis sizes instead? Mine's like a couple of feet, but I haven't measured since I was a little kid

I wish my penis was that small, I would be able to conceal it at that size...
 
I could easily point out a couple of members who seemingly have vaginas.

I dont know what your doing but somebody holding the door while trying to flex lol, looks kinda stupid to me
Can I give u a haircut beach boy.
 
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Your an embarrassment...

Im the big guy at work but its like a disadvantage. I gotta lift this or move that. Kinda sucks. I dont really think I'm huge but compared to guys at work and Matt, I guess so.

Lol, until u post a pic its water under the bridge bro
 
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