I agree with you t bone, that not every woman should be told everything. I have had many try to use this against me or threaten police involvement. I just don't see why anyone would marry a woman like that. I've been with mine for 3 years and she's one of those rare girls that supports everything I do. I would never stay with a woman that didn't. Some of us aren't lucky enough to ever find a woman like that and I'm sorry for you bros that don't cuz it sucks having to hide shit and worry about that blackmail aspect of it. Just know that most women will find out and when they do...Fuck...keep that shit where she would never look and pin when she's gone our something. Good luck. I hope it works out for you