Black Beard
@ X450 Gravity
To answer the question, PO box will take care of it. Make sure you want to do this though. Don't do anything you will regret. If she finds out, will you?
getting packages in the mail with out wife knowing.
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unkazra1
Not a Newbie
I love this thread. This is real shit that we all have to consider at some point. PO Box if your gonna keep hiding it from her. When I married my wife in 2009, I was on Test (only about 500mgs/wk). I felt great. I looked great. What sucked, is I wasn't honest. I didn't give a fuck about her knowing I sauced, when we were just dating. It was after we got married, I felt I had a choice to make. Start my marriage on the wrong foot by lying and be sneaking around to use gear or just stop using it (because she was dead set against it). So, I stopped. Good for marriage, yes. Good for me, no! It sucked and I was depressed. Fast forward to today...my divorce was finalized in October. I'm using test again. Test is here to stay. Test is now my partner. Now, I'm only interested in a 3 way relationship: Me+Testosterone+Woman = Happy
Optimal
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SilverBackGorilla
I like bananas
Does not sound like a keeper
Dump her ass now.
Black Beard
@ X450 Gravity
I would never marry anyone like that. You should only marry a best friend type of woman. Someone who's got your back always. Not this shit...
snowpatrol123
New member
I'm in a similar situation, minus the marriage. Being an ex-alcoholic-coke head (me, not her) my girlfriend has zero tolerance for "drugs"...especially anything injectable.
Hitting the gym seven days a week without gear just wasn't cutting it; I can't stand lying to her, she's a great person but here I am pinning tren/prop ED and trying not to think about the consequences. I'm hoping to get her to watch Bigger Stronger Faster as an introduction over the holidays, when I PCT off I'm not going to start again without her knowledge. Not looking forward to the discussion / uphill battle though.
Mprtz
New member
Maybe come clean during the Valentino bathroom scene - she'll be so grossed out and distracted it will hardly register
unkazra1
Not a Newbie
Yeah bro..the trust factor is the trust factor. Married or not. You're either real or an illusion. Sux. No middle ground. When you talk to her though, I would recommend talking to hear about you considering "Testosterone Replacement Therapy". Get her comfortable with that first. Then the door is open. Good luck man. Do some research and make an educated sales pitch.
Black Beard
@ X450 Gravity
Second Unkazra, you need to educated her on how the hormones work. I like your idea of having her watch bigger faster stronger. You are not in a comfortable situation and i wish you the best of luck bro.
riprockwell
New member
I am confused as to why he is getting fucking invoices and shit?? If you are ordering gear, you get the packaged shipped. Its not like they are going to send you an invoice and shit. Get a PO box. If you are married, I would probably just tell her but what do I know. I know like Teut said, some guys will pay a nasty price in divorce court. Good luck.
Black Beard
@ X450 Gravity
HAHA, thats goodn shit there. I must confess, I have tiny, but cute nuts. Im currently on TRT and do not use HCG. Results tiny nuts. Makes the package look bigger. Damn, cant believe i just said that.
Inhuman2012
New member
Prenuptials should be standard at this point
im getting prenups and my gear stash is going on it. lol I take time to build up my reserves.. lol
Ocean Rhino
Professional Bodybreaker
Get a PO box, but watch out bringing home/to car, ANY of the crap junk mail that will surely show up there; the "why do you have a PO Box?" question is not a good way to start a conversation unless you run your own business. Just dump anything other than your gear that comes to that PO Box. They have your address, yes, but they put your bill in your box and you can pay at the post office.
My wife is in medicine, and she'd never understand gear. I run gear like I am running an OP. What she doesn't know won't hurt either of us. I'm old enough and a big enough asshole already that any mood swings just seem like ops normal anyhow. You guys that don't compartmentalize ANYTHING in your life are lying to yourselves, or you have that perfect, mythological unicorn woman with amazing tits and a tight ass that never farts and always wants to blow you, right?
It's not a matter of deceiving, it's a matter of it not being compatible with her way of thinking. She also doesn't need to know everything that happened to me down range, it serves no purpose for her.
My wife is in medicine, and she'd never understand gear. I run gear like I am running an OP. What she doesn't know won't hurt either of us. I'm old enough and a big enough asshole already that any mood swings just seem like ops normal anyhow. You guys that don't compartmentalize ANYTHING in your life are lying to yourselves, or you have that perfect, mythological unicorn woman with amazing tits and a tight ass that never farts and always wants to blow you, right?
It's not a matter of deceiving, it's a matter of it not being compatible with her way of thinking. She also doesn't need to know everything that happened to me down range, it serves no purpose for her.
Black Beard
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00pmac00
New member
1, its your wife, good relationship if you have to hide things. When she sleeps around and hides it don't say you didn't have it coming.
2, get the damn package sent to your work
3, Get a P.O. Box and get the billing sent to your work, change the billing address of your credit card to reflect your work.
4, Tell your wife, and if she says no, maybe you should respect the wishes of your significant other.
To add to my comments, if she doesn't accept it, then you need to choose, her or gear, which is more important? What was there first gear or her. Some tough (not really) easy choices to make, gear or her. Hiding from your wife, she will fuck you when she finds out you have been holding stuff from her, and I mean you might not know what, but stepping out with other men would be a likely reaction. Ashley Madison makes it soooo easy to get a quick easy date for a woman.
2, get the damn package sent to your work
3, Get a P.O. Box and get the billing sent to your work, change the billing address of your credit card to reflect your work.
4, Tell your wife, and if she says no, maybe you should respect the wishes of your significant other.
To add to my comments, if she doesn't accept it, then you need to choose, her or gear, which is more important? What was there first gear or her. Some tough (not really) easy choices to make, gear or her. Hiding from your wife, she will fuck you when she finds out you have been holding stuff from her, and I mean you might not know what, but stepping out with other men would be a likely reaction. Ashley Madison makes it soooo easy to get a quick easy date for a woman.
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Jack Tors
New member
yeah thats why i never say anything suspicison is a lot diff then admitting it. they knew but look the other way because im chiseled like a greek god LOL
Jack Tors
New member
the problem is the how misinformed the average person is and it can take months to years to convice her of your healthy lifestyel
