harveus
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i had very bad experiences with bullying when i was a kid, so i know all too well the extent of the problem. for a period of time i became a very violent person myself as a consequnce to that and other stuff in my childhood. i have somehow menaged to at least partially take controll of my anger menagment issues lately but they still sometimes get out of hand.
i'm the first one to resort to violence all to easely if i get provoked or worse assaulted, but i know very well it's a mistake and that if i'm not in jail or dead by now it's most likely due to a good amount of luck,and help from God, more than my self control.
so as a general rule i try my best to avoid conflict or conflict fueling situations, and would advise everyone else to do the same.
Knowing myself in that sort of situation things could very easely escalate to very, very dramatic points. and i have no reson to belive i am the only one in the world wich would react in this or a similar manner to acts of violence.
so if possible it's always better to avoid it, but this takes effort from both parts. beeing a woman cannot,should not, and in my case surely WILL NOT be an excuse for this kind of behaviour to be justified, even less tolerated.
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