I understand a lot of people liked this post and for a generally true reason.. I don't completely agree though. Sometimes, my girlfriend and I like to wrestle. And I don't mean the no-pants kind. I mean, straight up rollin around, taking down, pinning to the ground back woods wrastlin'. The fun kind, where no one gets hurt until one person pushes a little too far by mistake, and then it's over.
I suppose this is a little situational, and different than actual hitting. But, it is a form of physical violence in a way, and lets out aggression and stress too without belittling, or hurting one another.
Somedays, I'll be in an annoying mood. I'll pick at her (not in a disrespectful manner), and then she'll pick at me(same as I do), and then we just wrestle to settle the bout! Obviously, as a man, you have to try and avoid the unintentional elbows, knees, and fists, more than she does. I would hurt her pretty bad if I actually tried too..
Take it however you want, call her and I incompatible, whatever. It works well and brings her and I both to a neutrality. We tend to have sex after, or go to the gym. Either way, I'm winning so suck it!
EDIT : Glad you canned the crazy bitch! Get your own levels checked though, you should be level headed enough to think yourself out of reacting in any way. Hitting her, or breaking personal belongings. Both are unacceptable and give steroids/steroid users a bad rap. Woosah!