Frosty, I've been reading a lot of your posts, and they have been invaluable. I don't know what your background is, but you've obviously done a lot of reading on this subject, and I appreciate your sharing your knowledge. An hour and a half ago, I thought that eating fats was unhealthy, but that was before I read up on the issue. I'm obviously a newbie when it comes to nutrition, and after I plowed through a bunch of posts on minute details on nutrition, I've decided to go with your advice and keep it simple for now.
Honestly, I'm feeling a bit overwhelmed with all that I've read. Just three days ago, a co-worker of mine who sees a nutrtitionist dispelled for me the myth that whole eggs' high cholesterol is unhealthy. Here's what I've been going by that I heard secondhand from a doctor: if a food's "calores from fat" is 50% or more than that food's calories, I shouldn't eat it. That has been my main guideline for fat intake.
I've been a believer for years that eating fats will make me fat. A few years ago, I increased my caloric intake from 2,000 to 3,000/day and quit cardio altogether in an effort to get bigger, and after seeing my bodyfat % go up by 1.5, I hastily decided the extra eating was a bad idea. As a second semester senior in high school who hadn't exercised since running cross country in the fall, I had my body fat measured at 3.5%. A couple years later, while attending aerobic classes 3x a week, my bodyfat was 5.3%. I'm under the impression that it's normal for my bodyfat to gradually increase as I get older and heavier. I don't measure it anymore, as I'm most concerned with my appearance.
Now that I've put my history down, I'll give me thesis. My goal is to gain lean muscle mass while eating healthily and doing cardio as often as I can, which is 4-5 times a week. I'm 6'6", 193 lbs, and I'm not sure what a good caloric intake/diet will be for me.