I think my bf is taking steroids :(

[diamondz]

not sure how I feel about this, he said he is doing vitamins but uses needles? how can I find out if he is using steroids? are they even safe???

 

[MeatHead96]

not sure how I feel about this, he said he is doing vitamins but uses needles? how can I find out if he is using steroids? are they even safe???

It could be vitamin b12. Have you noticed any changes in him such as more aggression, oily skin, acne, higher libido, etc? If one knows what they are doing and has done research there is a safe way to do them. Unless he is too young. Of course there is risks involved in anything you do in life.

 

[diamondz]

he is 30, always been in shape and competes in bodybuilding. I have only been with him 4 months but he seems normal. He has a little gym bag in his bedroom with some bottles on it called batrostatic alcohol and needles! I think he is either selling steroids or using them or both!

 

[a68rebel]

Like any substance, there is a safe way to do them and an unsafe way to do them.

 

[JWS77]

he is 30, always been in shape and competes in bodybuilding. I have only been with him 4 months but he seems normal. He has a little gym bag in his bedroom with some bottles on it called batrostatic alcohol and needles! I think he is either selling steroids or using them or both!

He could be using Human Chorionic Gonadotropin (HCG), or HGH they are bodybuilding compounds but non-anabolic, only assist in anabolic effect. Any other clues you can give us? glad to help a lady

 

[KaiserSose]

Stay out of his shit and quit being so damn nosy..is he fucking someone else ? does he beat you ? is he 18 ? Then dont worry about it hes a grown ass man and probably knows exactly what hes doing.

 

[MeatHead96]

he is 30, always been in shape and competes in bodybuilding. I have only been with him 4 months but he seems normal. He has a little gym bag in his bedroom with some bottles on it called batrostatic alcohol and needles! I think he is either selling steroids or using them or both!

Lets not get freaked out now. If he's a competitive bodybuilder at his age there is a good chance he knows what hes doing if he is using steroids or other compounds. It doesn't mean he's a bad person. Just leave it alone and if he is using he'll tell you when he feels comfortable.

 

[coltmc45]

Stay out of his shit and quit being so damn nosy..is he fucking someone else ? does he beat you ? is he 18 ? Then dont worry about it hes a grown ass man and probably knows exactly what hes doing.

Thank you! Dont snoop through his shit. Educate yourself on AAS and then sit down and have an honest talk with him and voice your concerns but don't be judgemental and be on his ass. Men shut down an start hiding shit when women just jump our ass about stuff we do.

 

[BigHuge]

^ not to that extent, but chances r if he is and he is competing he was doing them before he met u, so now u know does it change who he is in ur eyes to the point u don't wanna be with him? If not then accept him for who he its and what he does or doesn't do

 

[Logical]

steroids can be used safely and are not the monster the media portrays them to be

if he's chosen the lifestyle, and he's fully educated on the subject, then it's his choice and you should respect that

 

[diamondz]

He could be using Human Chorionic Gonadotropin (HCG), or HGH they are bodybuilding compounds but non-anabolic, only assist in anabolic effect. Any other clues you can give us? glad to help a lady

Thanks Mr. Vader, yes I have looked into that already. If he is doing steroids, I want him to admit it, I wouldn't care anyway just want him to be honest. He is a great man altogether. Would you lie to your gf about using steroids??

 

[megatron_ed]

Stay out of his shit and quit being so damn nosy..is he fucking someone else ? does he beat you ? is he 18 ? Then dont worry about it hes a grown ass man and probably knows exactly what hes doing.

DAMN!!!

 

[Logical]

Thanks Mr. Vader, yes I have looked into that already. If he is doing steroids, I want him to admit it, I wouldn't care anyway just want him to be honest. He is a great man altogether. Would you lie to your gf about using steroids??

just bring it up with him and tell him you're ok with it


some people aren't as accepting as you apparently are, he's probably just concerned about letting it get in the way of your relationship

 

[megatron_ed]

not sure how I feel about this, he said he is doing vitamins but uses needles? how can I find out if he is using steroids? are they even safe???

1. From your post, you sound ignorant about steroids. They can be harmful, they can be safe. Educate yourself first, then...
2. Talk to him about it
3. To me, it isn't the use that is bothersome, but the honesty.

 

[diamondz]

Lets not get freaked out now. If he's a competitive bodybuilder at his age there is a good chance he knows what hes doing if he is using steroids or other compounds. It doesn't mean he's a bad person. Just leave it alone and if he is using he'll tell you when he feels comfortable.

I am not freaked out lol. Just want honesty, I am sure he is on something and I didn't go through his stuff, I went to look for my sunglasses, he said to check his bedroom. His bedroom is my bed bedroom and mine, his.

 

[MeatHead96]

I am not freaked out lol. Just want honesty, I am sure he is on something and I didn't go through his stuff, I went to look for my sunglasses, he said to check his bedroom. His bedroom is my bed bedroom and mine, his.

Cool I agree with what logical said. He probably doesn't want it to affect your relationship or is concerned about the legal issues if you were to flip on him.

 

[THE-DET-OAK]

its not something you just tell everyone. I know 4 months may seem like a long time to know someone, but that is nothing.

I've seen it a million times, girls say i wont care as long as he is honest. Then as soon as he gets pissed about something its roid rage, or now you want to have sex so much cause your on steroids.

Don't push him to tell you, let him tell you when he is ready, @ 4 months if i found you going through my bag, your bags would be packed........................

 

[JWS77]

Thanks Mr. Vader, yes I have looked into that already. If he is doing steroids, I want him to admit it, I wouldn't care anyway just want him to be honest. He is a great man altogether. Would you lie to your gf about using steroids??

I would not lie to my gf about using, in fact I think the honesty is best. I have ignored answering at first, only admitting to vitamin injections, but I am lucky, every girl I have dated has not had an issue with it, but I appreciate their concern for my safety, that means alot. You are really no different than my ex gf who tried to find out about me. In time he will tell you if he is, just let him know that are just concerned about safety, and not a deal breaker.

 

[JWS77]

Bros, she didn't go thru his stuff with intentions of snooping...she gave an explanation that makes her story legitimate. I go thru my gf's purse all the time for gum and hand lotion/hand sanitizer...sometimes I find 'odd' things too. Girls got all kinds of weird shit in their purses hahah. She clearly isn't saying she will call the cops on him, just concerned for his safety.

 

[THE-DET-OAK]

so she went to look for "her" sunglasses in "his gym bag"???????? legitimate???

not being a dick, just telling it how i see it man.