My 20yo Niece needs some help

Ping33

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I hope you can help my niece, she is a good kid, hits the gym weekly and does ALLOT of cardio. She does not know what she is doing and I fear she is doing more harm than good. She is around 5' 4" tall and roughly 98lbs.

She is vegan, but now trying to add poultry to her diet.

She uses a protein powder, I do not know which one.

She has no definition, chest is flattening out. She looks soft to me, very little tone. She looks tired.

She has had menstrual cycle issues, none for up to 3 months at a time. She is not on any birth control and does not like the affects. (I'm thinking hormonal problems)

Her mood usually seems to be pretty good, she does not show signs of any depression that I can see. But, she really does not want to talk about this particular topic in regards to her physical health. But, I am her uncle, so I guess I should expect that.

She has to much acne, and struggles with it.

She is continually wiped out, sleeps up to 14 hours a day or more if she is left alone.

My thinking is that we have some emotional and hormonal imbalances in play here. I'm her uncle and am concerned for her, she is just now starting to ask questions and finally figuring out that something may not be right with her physically.

I would like to see her do a blood workup, look at hormonal levels along with the general stuff and then find a real doctor that knows what they are doing. The few times she has seen her doc, it is the same thing, just take these pills and all will be well. This has been my experience too, my low T is all in my head. I am now with Chip.

So, can any of you ladies help me out here or give me some ideas? I am honestly concerned and do not know what to do. Her grandmother, who raised her, (she was abandoned by her mother) is pushing me for answers that I do not have.

Mike
 
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Take her to the doctor!! Those symptoms can mean way too many things, she needs some tests ran, good luck.
 
Take her to the doctor!! Those symptoms can mean way too many things, she needs some tests ran, good luck.

I totally agree, as she has been to several. But, it is always the same thing, they prescribe the pill which does not agree with her and or try the antidepressant route on her.

Are any of you in the Detroit area? If so, do any of you know of a doctor that they would recommend in the Livonia or Northville MI area for a 20yo girl? Someone that knows something about treating patients instead of pushing pills?

I have a long list of horror stories in regards to my experiences regarding my low T. They all wanted to put me on antidepressants, and have the nerve to tell me my symptoms are all in my head. From what I have been told, she is being treated in the same manner. Test results are being disregarded from what her grandmother tells me, as she is just as frustrated as I am.

Mike
 
I totally agree, as she has been to several. But, it is always the same thing, they prescribe the pill which does not agree with her and or try the antidepressant route on her.

Are any of you in the Detroit area? If so, do any of you know of a doctor that they would recommend in the Livonia or Northville MI area for a 20yo girl? Someone that knows something about treating patients instead of pushing pills?

I have a long list of horror stories in regards to my experiences regarding my low T. They all wanted to put me on antidepressants, and have the nerve to tell me my symptoms are all in my head. From what I have been told, she is being treated in the same manner. Test results are being disregarded from what her grandmother tells me, as she is just as frustrated as I am.

Mike

Ping,

At 5'4 she should weight at least 110-145 lbs.

It could be so many factors causing her to be this underweight, Is her frame small ?, When I was a teenager until I was like 25 I weighed around 114 lbs, and I'm 5'6, I was perfectly fine, just was naturally thin...

In her case, if her grandmother & you are concerned.. then, I assume she has showed signs that there migtht be a problem, what kind of doctors have she been to ? Psychologists ? or primary doctors ?

Being underweight can be due to an eating disorder such as anorexia nervosa and bulimia nervosa, over active thyroids, hormonal imbalance, depression, or taking certain medications.

I think she really needs to get blood work done, and if she needs help dealing with other issues like depression or disorders, than you can research a therapist that can help her deal with these problems, or the doctor can refer her to a pshycologist.

But first thing to do would be look for a general doctor & be honest to him about all her symptoms & have him do the blood work & take it from there.
If she has insurance I would call the insurance carrier & ask for a list of primary doctors.

Wish her the best of luck, hope she finds the help she needs :)
 
Ping,

At 5'4 she should weight at least 110-145 lbs.

It could be so many factors causing her to be this underweight, Is her frame small ?, When I was a teenager until I was like 25 I weighed around 114 lbs, and I'm 5'6, I was perfectly fine, just was naturally thin...

In her case, if her grandmother & you are concerned.. then, I assume she has showed signs that there migtht be a problem, what kind of doctors have she been to ? Psychologists ? or primary doctors ?

Being underweight can be due to an eating disorder such as anorexia nervosa and bulimia nervosa, over active thyroids, hormonal imbalance, depression, or taking certain medications.

I think she really needs to get blood work done, and if she needs help dealing with other issues like depression or disorders, than you can research a therapist that can help her deal with these problems, or the doctor can refer her to a pshycologist.

But first thing to do would be look for a general doctor & be honest to him about all her symptoms & have him do the blood work & take it from there.
If she has insurance I would call the insurance carrier & ask for a list of primary doctors.

Wish her the best of luck, hope she finds the help she needs :)

This right here. My sister was just like this.
 
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