I'm confident he may offer a referral but have a few concerns:
- I've read of many endocrinologists who have stubbornly refused to treat people above the 200 range, even after referral from GP. Am I better to go private and then come back armed with a letter from private doctor?
- Will NHS be unlikely to prescribe an aromatase inhibitor? I've heard of people just being given test and nothing else, and others having to really fight to also have an AI or having the NHS try to withdraw it on suspected basis of cost.
- If NHS refuse to treat, will this make it harder to get a private prescription?
- How likely are they to seriously consider a private doc's recommendation?
- What should I be looking at treatment-wise? Testosterone, AI, HCG???
- How quickly might my sex drive improve?
I don't mind paying to expedite the process for several reasons. Firstly, I've just found out my job may be at risk due to company restructure. I feel I'm fairly safe as bid management is already fairly stretched compared to HR etc. But if I have to competitively reapply for my job I want to have all my energy etc and not be underperforming due to fatigue.
Secondly, I may still be able to rekindle my relationship - we 'put it on hold' for a few weeks due to me moving house and being really busy etc (she thought stress was causing my lack of sex drive) and I haven't picked it back up after six weeks - I'd rather she put it down to stress than think I'm impotent and maybe tell the other girls we work with (my colleagues are mainly female). If I can get my mojo back then there still may be a chance to resolve things as she's still flirting hard.