halfwit
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Your story reads as if you're looking at TRT purely for anabolic benefits.
Low testosterone or not, eating 3,500 calories a day will have you putting on weight (assuming your day job is fairly sedentary). If your diet is genuine and you still aren't putting on weight, add another 500 calories and see how you go.
While I agree that the tone of the original post was a bit on the questionable side (TRT is NOT a cycle), I can personally tell you that this is simply not true. Unless of course we're talking fat - which is completely doable with a damaged metabolism. We're talking guys with a lack of the hormone here; a completely different ballgame than telling Joe Teenager in the AAS section that he's doing it wrong and needs to fix his diet. If you're lacking testosterone, it's damn near impossible to add muscle/lose fat. I know, I tried for many years.
Nothing else to add here OP. Gels are money vacuums and will mess with DHT/E2 (in MOST - some guys DO like them) while making life more difficult. Your doctor sounds like he knows exactly what he's doing; getting you to keep renewing that script every month. I don't even want to ask if he's checked your LH/FSH/Prolactin/E2/thyroid as I'm pretty sure I know the answer to this already...