Well showing her bigger, faster, stronger is a start and explaining to her that most roids, especially injectible, are safer then DS/PH that you can get legally. Also, tell her what you want to do and if need be you will get blood work from the doc regularly to check your health. Doc doesn't need to know shit, most likely won't unless you blow up huge in 3 months and your blood test is way off. Million ways to spin it, some people are into cars, boats, fishing, you like to lift and look your best. She should support you not talk shit. And post a pic of her!