Are men attracted to overweight women?

[maggie05]

Hello,

I’m so confused for what I have seen in this link, I never thought that overweight can be too negative for a woman, as I'm an overweight woman,

Please consider this link first then try to provide an answer to my question bellow,

this is the link to the video:

Viddler.com - 15 Reasons Why Men Don?t Find Fat Women Attractive - Uploaded by themodernmancom


I just watched this video, can’t believe some of the stuff this guy says, and I am now left wondering whether or not this guy is right.

So, I am putting the question to all the men on this forum:
Do men find fat women attractive?
Do I have to become slim for guys to find me attractive?

will be waiting for your sugestions,

Yours,
Maggie
An overweight woman with a nice heart

 

[Blondie_Bombshell]

Some guys do Im sure.

 

[livebigdieyoung]

i prefer slimmer woman!

 

[Blondie_Bombshell]

I like athletic

 

[drewbolic]

Some guys do Im sure.

Its very stereotypical but I allways heard black dudes like big woman,I no not all do but IMO I see alot of big woman with black boy friends.

as for me and over wieght woman

 

[Mr P]

it's the hart that counts , beauty is in the eye's of the beholder

 

[Onehungrychicken]

I like women with curves but not severly overweight at all. Ask yourself this and im guessing you like atheltic men as your on this site, do you like overweight men? But there is someone for everyone.

 

[Gympho]

my brother only dates the heavy ones....really heavy

 

[Jjaden]

I eat clean, train my ass off in the gym, to look and feel great.

I wouldn't expect anything less out of the person I'm dating.

There is no excuse in today's society where there is easy access to diet, nutritional information and gyms all across the country that a person should be obese unless they are lazy.

To me when I see a fat person the first thing I think is that they are either physically lazy, or too weak willed to follow a proper diet. These are both extremely unattractive qualities.

I do not give an overweight woman a second look.

There are enough athletic / lean women with great personalities that I should not have to settle for one who is overweight.

 

[WorkoutBarbie]

I think most athletic guys want some one that share thier same interest. I don't think that I could ever date anyone that was not in great shape. I'm very fit and in shape and I love my guys the same way. I work my ass off to look nice for my significant other and I expect them to do the same for me. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder,and everyone likes something different. You don't have to be slim for every guy to think your attractive. Different strokes for different folks

 

[barnzy7]

Personally I cant stand muscular woman, I honestly look away disgusted. Athletic I like, but I prefer woman with curves, even if theyr carrying a little more weight that part of the trade off.

And you cant say all larger woman are lazy. There are tons more variable to why someone is over weight, and I am in no way sticking up for anyone who is too lazy, I hate that.

 

[Greybeard]

I've seen plenty of very pretty women that are overweight. But for me personally, I'm attracted to slimmer women.

Like the ones in Blondies avatar for instance... Sorry, I just can't help myself!

 

[juced_porkchop]

over waight is not healthy and unless the over waight person has thyroid dysfunction or some other serious desease, theres no excuse to being over waight.
healthy diet and mild workouts (30min walk few times a week)


its not healthy and i dont find it sexy.

 

[Miss Muscle]

My boyfriend would still love me if I gained 300 pounds. However I don't think he would have wanted to get to know me initially if I was fat.

Whether we want to admit it or not, appearance does play a role in our feelings towards one another initially. Most of us can get past appearances eventually but for first impressions, a nice appearance is ideal.

 

[juced_porkchop]

hey i do love curvs just not rolls.

also love musculer women (that look like women still i must add)

 

[stevemorse0]

you know I have seen women who are thin in my gym. They are so flabby and flapping away worse than the chubby ones. They are thin but look terrible. They are cardio freaks and no muscle tone. That to me is worse than a chubby girl with some shape. I think most people like things that fit the norm. 20 lbs overweight is fine, alittle muscle is fine, a little thin is fine. When you hit the outside of the norm, then it becomes a problem.

 

[stevemorse0]

hey i do love curvs just not rolls.

also love musculer women (that look like women still i must add)

thank God for you!!!

 

[WorkoutBarbie]

I've seen plenty of very pretty women that are overweight. But for me personally, I'm attracted to slimmer women.

Like the ones in Blondies avatar for instance... Sorry, I just can't help myself!

Hahaha I know I love her avatar!!!!!

 

[Jjaden]

My boyfriend would still love me if I gained 300 pounds. However I don't think he would have wanted to get to know me initially if I was fat.

Whether we want to admit it or not, appearance does play a role in our feelings towards one another initially. Most of us can get past appearances eventually but for first impressions, a nice appearance is ideal.

He might love you but I doubt he'd find you physically attractive.
The thread was about whether overweight women are attractive.

Overweight is nobody's ideal, when someone dates an overweight person it's because they are 'settling' or have low self confidence and don't think they can do any better.

 

[Blondie_Bombshell]

Im glad everyone is enjoying my AV. =)