Boyfriend low sex drive PCT

[girl2911]

So I know that post cycle his sex drive drops, but how long does this usually last? He's three weeks post cycle and we've had sex once in the past two weeks.

It's just quite the adjustment to go from several times a day to nada. Also, is it pretty normal to still masturbate (pretty sure he still does) and just not have the drive for sex with me?

 

[halfwit]

Did he actually run a PCT? I can't speak for him, but if libido is low, it's low. Masturbation is usually done to take care of business when there isn't someone around to actually make an event of it.

We all recover differently, but usually a good 6-8 weeks is when things should start to seem normal if all other facets are taken care of properly.

My .02c

 

[Matt0071]

Maybe find a new boyfriend on the side till he recovers
I don't run into those probs cause I don't come off
he can always take some viagra or cialis.for the meantime and hopefully your bf fully recovers

 

[Megatron28]

It would be odd to want to masterbate but not want to have sex with your girlfriend. Are you sure he is doing this post-cycle?

Can you find out the details of his cycle and PCT? What did be take? When? How much? For how long?

 

[carverelli]

Ummm I may have a solution to your problem.. He may not care for it, but I'm pretty sure you wouldn't mind.. Jus joking. Well kind of

 

[SJC]

Ummm I may have a solution to your problem.. He may not care for it, but I'm pretty sure you wouldn't mind.. Jus joking. Well kind of

Right.. I'm joking ,unless you're into it. If not I'm kidding...maybe, unless you're into it.

 

[Mprtz]

I know it's all meant in good humor, but a girl might want to be able to ask a question without being propositioned...

 

[carverelli]

I know it's all meant in good humor, but a girl might want to be able to ask a question without being propositioned...

I've made love to the same woman for over 28 years, I'd say the girl is pretty safe from me anyway.

So you can put your white knight hat back in the closet

 

[Southernfish]

I know it's all meant in good humor, but a girl might want to be able to ask a question without being propositioned...

Probably why hardly any females stick around here.

Anyways, ya it can be normal for this to happen during and even after PCT is finished. Lack of motivation for sex, laziness when it come to sex and low sex drive can all happen, not necessarily from PCT but from coming off a cycle in general. And of course Clomid, if hes using it, isnt helping in the emotions department Actually some guys dont know how to properly run gear and it happens ON cycle. Its a risk you run when you start messing around with your hormones.

All of this can be hard on a relationship and Ive seen it ruin relationships. For now IMHO he should hop on a daily dose of Cialis and see the PCT through then 6 or 8 weeks post go get bloodwork done to get an idea of whats going on inside his body.

What does his PCT consist of and what was his cycle he ran?

 

[Roush]

Maybe his gains were so magnificent on cycle, that now he is just attracted to himself .. Check his internet browser history,, see if he has been researching cloning

 

[cybrsage]

Speaking of masturbation - sometimes a guy might just want to have a release but not want all the "work" that goes into it when it involves another person. It should be in addition to, not a replacement for, sex.

I know that when I was in a low Testosterone state (before starting my replacement therapy), I almost never had the energy or drive to have sex...and eventually not even to masturbate. So it really sounds like he did not do a proper PCT and is stuck in a low Testosterone state.

 

[ChaseTheYoke]

If he's masturbating but turning you down when propositioned for sex.... PCT is an excuse. I've never not wanted or, at the least, obliged my lady. PCT, after PCT, in a mini-cooper, etc. I know everyone is different, but sex is better than masturbation. Period.

Might wanna start doing some digging on the snapchat girl! Lol

 

[mahsa]

i wouldnt be suprised if OP is ojand

 

[PrinceDianabol]

i wouldnt be suprised if OP is ojand

Dammit haha, I thought we got rid of you! What is your obsession with trolling?!

Just had a look back through your post history... your dropping the ball man lmao.

 

[Hypnotix]

I'm in PCT currently, your standard Clomid/Nolva. My sex drive is there.. but it's not eating at me to have sex like it was on cycle, or even before cycle

Now, to elaborate on the masturbation thing.. Sometimes like another member said, sex is just work to a person hormonally whacked out. Their mind is not always going to be 100% straight.. and I don't mean their attitude or emotions, I mean the autonomic functions like sexual desire.

But, they may still want that release without the work, and even maybe to save themselves from having to keep up with their On cycle self from a few weeks ago.. I don't know the correct answer, as every person handles things differently. I do know that with sex it can go from being very intimate, romantic, or it can be very angry and fun.

Compare that to masturbation.. which is for the average person just working it out in the corner of the shower for 2 minutes tops and getting on with life.

Maybe, he's just not in the mood for the motions of sex, but still wants the quick satisfaction of a release from masturbation.. maybe offer him a good old fashioned or an oral pleasuring and see if he wants it?

If his PCT is over, and it's been over a month.. have him get his hormones checked. If you love him, don't back out on him, or get around when he's in need of guidance and help.

My .02

 

[bigben66]

You may need some help with this jargon OP...

When the guys say PCT - this stands for Post Cycle Therapy. This is essential to recover your own normal functions after a period of introducing synthetic compounds into the body...

ie: when he was taking steroids, he shut off his own natural testosterone. Now that he has stopped injecting, it takes a period of time for the synthetic stuff to leave his body and his own natural levels to reappear. If your guy has overlooked PCT, and hasn't used the drugs to help his own system kickstart, then not only is he risking not recovering, but he is undoubtedly lengthening the period it will take.

There is also one other thing you must consider.

If your boyfriend has zero libido, he will be well aware that he is letting you down, and falling short as a lover. This masturbation may just be him trying to see what he can do and is capable of. From past experience, a low libido and inability to get an erection worth using, is a real headfuck. So although you automatically think he's wanking, he may just be trying to stimulate himself to see what he can and can't do. He'll be frustrated, embarrassed and feeling very low.

So TALK to him, tell him you've researched the subject, you are worried for him, and want to help him.
Just mentioning it to him will relax him, let him know you've got his back and want to work with him on it - you'll find that just by doing this, you'll take the pressure off him to perform, and it'll slowly come back naturally.

I agree though, in the meantime, get him some viagra, cialis, kamagra etc - and you'll find he'll do just fine

Oh, and be prepared, you may just need an umbrella when that Clomid finally kicks in!

 

[Teutonic]

Dammit haha, I thought we got rid of you! What is your obsession with trolling?!

Just had a look back through your post history... your dropping the ball man lmao.

If this ojand ( I m on gf s comp. I ll send your I p addy to every gay site and federal agencyI know you little prick now fu off.

Mrptz ur right. Fellas WE NEED TO help the ladies so if this is not a troll let s be cool. SERIOUSLY. I ll be docking greens if we can t be gentlemen to the ladies.

I been w Mrs T. for 4 yr s in a month and our sex..(she s 48,a runner a lifter a billionaire, got 4 daughters ,5 ft 0 inches 100 pds of horney tit s and ass crazy cajun with a gun in every car plane and helo she owns. We are very very active...and when I go from trt to a cycle we go from 1 to 2 a day to 2 plus quickies be it in a duck stand or the laundry room.

Now..lady..if he s masturbating ( I do when she s on business in tx or Mex or NYC and we are apart for more 24 hours)
that s a red flag but not necesarilly a fatal one...forplay..finding a good spot...it is a chore but.... But I call it lazy.

Snooping his history is unacceptable and If I were confronted with a snoop" explain this shit"; I d show you the door.
I do not do sneakey. This young generation gets off on screwing with each other s social media...it s pitiful. I m not on facebook twitter i m or sms or some gay shit like twitter. I don t need to read what some monkey wrote about his 3 pointer or Sean Penn s take on anything.

Patience is my advise...get re acquainted with your toy s and invite him. Love my ladies toy box.

 

[cybrsage]

Also, if he really is having erectile issues, let him know it is ok with you if he just takes care of you and tell him that is plenty good enough for you...no need to worry about performance, etc.

 

[cybrsage]

I have been married for almost 28 years now. Sometimes we like to not have actual sex for a few weeks, but still please each other fully in other ways, to more or less "reset" things. I can say that sex is still amazing and wonderful even with the same person for all that time.