My father is dying of a stage four tumor of the liver, its hard to deal with as of late. im just trying to be there for him and help. Life is hard right now, plus I have a new baby boy coming in a couple months. it seems like the docs only care about there next bottle of cancer pills they r trying to get off. Damn bros any advice to help?
Fuck bros my dad is dying of cancer
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Strong Man
Over Train
Sorry to hear that bro! I'll keep you and your family in my prayers!
Mad- scientist
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My dad died of cancer when I was 12. If I had known he was going to die and was older. I would have thought of all the things I would ever want to ask him and written them down. Ask about advice on how to raise your kid all the tough questions that a new father would want to ask his dad.Ask advice about how to keep a marriage going stuff like that. The depressing truth about life or interesting depending on how you look at it is this quote."By the sweat of your brow you will eat your food until you return to the ground, since from it you were taken; for dust you are and to dust you will return". We all meet up in the end life is but a blink of an eye in the face of eternity. Take pictures of you guys together and stuff I always wish I had more pictures. Have him record a message or something that you open in a few years sounds weird but It would be nice to have.
Mad- scientist
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Also if you know somebody is going to die from cancer and there is no stopping it I would recommend not doing radiation and kemo therapy. It is painful and the quality of life it provides for the extended ammount of time it gives you is not worth it in the end.
Sharmacus
ASSHAT
Hey mate I feel really bad for asking and I'm really sorry to hear about your loss, but I was just wondering if you know how people get cancer? Is it just something that is really unfortunate? Is there a way of knowing if you have a higher chance of getting it? There just seem to be so many things people can pass away from these days that it makes me want to just say fuck it and do everything I've ever wanted to do without giving a fuck. This world can be so cruel sometimes.
Mad- scientist
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Basically anything and everything can give you cancer these days. I heard that casein protein can, steroids, hgh, teflon pans, ciggerets, drinking cold water after a hot meal, smoking weed, processed foods, fine dust from metals, toxins in food we eat, deodorants, pro hormones, certain supplements, star light, tanning beds, the sun, ultra violet rays, cell phone towers, exhaust from cars, stress, anger, genetics, radiation, power towers, cellphones, computer screens, and the list go's on even burning olive oil in a pan supposedly.
Trust_
New member
Very sorry to hear bro.
There is no easy way to get thru this.
Try to take a little bit of time for yourself from time to time. Try to go to the gym for example.
Our body and mind are in relation. Take care of your body and your mind will be strong...which is what you need.
Stay strong man!
There is no easy way to get thru this.
Try to take a little bit of time for yourself from time to time. Try to go to the gym for example.
Our body and mind are in relation. Take care of your body and your mind will be strong...which is what you need.
Stay strong man!
This is my first post on the forum but I jsut wanted to say I'm sorry to hear that man. All I can really say is spend as much time as possible with him and make as many new memories as you can. Congrats with the baby boy on the way and I hope everything works out the best way possible
TheMinister
The Degrees of Motion
My father died of colon cancer which eventually spread to his liver. Theres not much time left bro - from start to finish it was two months. But from what it sounds theres not much time left. If you love you father like I do, let him die with dignity and say all those things you haven't yet said.
BTW, towards the final days, the doctors can give a form of steroid which kinda brings them back for a few hours - days after that they are gone. Speak to you doctor about this and use that time wisely.
I miss my father very much
BTW, towards the final days, the doctors can give a form of steroid which kinda brings them back for a few hours - days after that they are gone. Speak to you doctor about this and use that time wisely.
I miss my father very much
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