Girl grooming Question from a guy-HELP ladies!!!

[frankie21]

here's the senario-
I'm dating this girl (for about 8 weeks now) , 24yro, naturally very beautiful, runs, eats healthy, in law school, etc.

Now, like some women,,she has that light hair on her upper lip, probably a bit more than ive ever experienced; and honestly it doesent bother my that much, however, its really unecessary, and she'd look better without it, you know?

Now, I really like her, and she's going away with me to VAIL, CO for a few days while i'm working at a conference.

My plan was to book her a day at the hotel spa, pre pay for the facial, pedicure and tell the esthetician suggest waxing her lip!! Done.

Am I nuts??! Is this going to BACKFIRE on me, thats the last thing i want!
HELP
Frank

 

[Miss Muscle]

Hahaha! I don't know what to say.

If the esthetician tells her you ordered it she most likely will find it very offensive.

Maybe she just needs to lighten it some more instead of waxing it.

I would say just bring it up but how to do that without offending her is really tough.

You could make something up like "My buddy is dating this East Indian chick with a thick mustache and it bugs him blah blah blah. Bring it up like that and then subtly ask her if she waxes or bleaches." If you get the topic going without straight up asking her she might not be offended.

Either way it is probably a very sensitive issue and there is no easy way to approach it.

If she is fine with it then I think you'll have to learn to live with it. It really is quite minor...especially if it is light. Maybe she doesn't even notice it.

If the esthetician just suggests to wax it without saying you told her to....you may be alright.

 

[blkwdw]

haha!!! i would love if some guy booked me a spa day...and tell the esthetician NOT to tell her you asked that she suggest your woman to wax it. if she is professional, she shouldnt tell on you. haha! your cute - and there is nothing wrong with you wanting her to remove her mustache!!!
DO IT.
and then post here what happened....cuz i'd be curious.
and good luck bro

 

[Miss Muscle]

I'm curious too......PICS!!! Before and after of course!