How do you deal with loved ones and AAS use?

ELicit23

ELicit23

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My girlfriend will kill me and probably wont stop talking sh*t to me if i tell her im gonna go on a cycle.
My friends will think I like taking short cuts, simply because when I got my noob gains (which people get fast) they thought i was juicing and all i heard was "c'mon bro no short cuts".
Everyone I know is basically uneducated about the juice... which will make it impossible for me to share it with family, my best friend and someone who i tell everything to, my girlfriend.

Does any one here keep their use on the super down low? As in no one knows?
I feel like I should at least tell someone, to have some one to talk to in person instead of this forum. I was gonna sit my girlfriend down and tell her the news... but then we saw pain and gain and she was lauging at the guy not getting a hard on because of roids and said "you see? no penis for muscles?" so im like.... let me just keep it shut.
I'm sure its psychologically advantageous to tell some one something exciting... but with my closest friends and my loved one being so uneducated, I have no one to talk to. Just me and you guys :(

Anyone else have this dilemma?
 
ELicit23 said:
My girlfriend will kill me and probably wont stop talking sh*t to me if i tell her im gonna go on a cycle.
My friends will think I like taking short cuts, simply because when I got my noob gains (which people get fast) they thought i was juicing and all i heard was "c'mon bro no short cuts".
Everyone I know is basically uneducated about the juice... which will make it impossible for me to share it with family, my best friend and someone who i tell everything to, my girlfriend.

Does any one here keep their use on the super down low? As in no one knows?
I feel like I should at least tell someone, to have some one to talk to in person instead of this forum. I was gonna sit my girlfriend down and tell her the news... but then we saw pain and gain and she was lauging at the guy not getting a hard on because of roids and said "you see? no penis for muscles?" so im like.... let me just keep it shut.
I'm sure its psychologically advantageous to tell some one something exciting... but with my closest friends and my loved one being so uneducated, I have no one to talk to. Just me and you guys :(

Anyone else have this dilemma?
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Does she live with you? If so then you won't have to worry how she feels when she finds your stash, OR if you struggle with your temper then she will be gone too.

I'm not saying to tell her but I am saying you need to own yourself and if being judged is that big of deal for you then you don't have the right friends or girlfriend. With that said, what you are doing is not legal so don't tell anyone you don't trust and that means you need to really look at the girl and the friends and think if you can trust them. If the girl left you would the cops be called and you taken in for the drugs?? Lot's to think about here.
 
ELicit23 said:
My girlfriend will kill me and probably wont stop talking sh*t to me if i tell her im gonna go on a cycle.
My friends will think I like taking short cuts, simply because when I got my noob gains (which people get fast) they thought i was juicing and all i heard was "c'mon bro no short cuts".
Everyone I know is basically uneducated about the juice... which will make it impossible for me to share it with family, my best friend and someone who i tell everything to, my girlfriend.

Does any one here keep their use on the super down low? As in no one knows?
I feel like I should at least tell someone, to have some one to talk to in person instead of this forum. I was gonna sit my girlfriend down and tell her the news... but then we saw pain and gain and she was lauging at the guy not getting a hard on because of roids and said "you see? no penis for muscles?" so im like.... let me just keep it shut.
I'm sure its psychologically advantageous to tell some one something exciting... but with my closest friends and my loved one being so uneducated, I have no one to talk to. Just me and you guys :(

Anyone else have this dilemma?
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Up to you but for me friends and girlfriends need not know. My wife knows, as shes just that my wife, a girlfriend is far from that no matter how much you each say I love you. Word of mouth is a dangerous thing. You tell someone you trust, and they tell someone they trust. Not to mention the occasional tongue slip up in a convo. As I said up to you but in my life only one person knows and that's my wife. No real reason to tell anyone that doesn't live with you.
 
If you plan on sticking with the girl, you should tell her.
Be open and honest. Show her that it is not as bad as the reputation of the steroids really are. I was open and upfront with my girlfriend, I asked if it was alright. I showed her the truth behind steroids, promised to get regular blood work done every 4 months, and made sure she was alright with it. I told her I was pretty set upon it and that if I saw bad side effects and my blood work came out bad in any way, I would pull off and let myself get back into good health.

She will find out eventually. Make her know first and make her comfortable with the idea.
 
I told my GF, heck she even used to help me pin at the start.
Sometimes she uses it against me but its not a big deal.
 
my mother,sister, and wife all knew before i ever started. with my mother running a large medical practice it was to my advantage for her to know haha. anyway imo you owe it to anyone you are in a partnership with. what happens if you get caught?
 
NOBODY other than myself knows...or at least "knows for sure"....There are those whom I work out with that "suspect", but that's the extent of it. The other guys on gear in my gym know.....not because I told them, but because they know the signs. It's sorta an unspoken thing ampngst us. My wife on the other hand has "hinted" that she knows...but we'll just keep that as a secret between the 2 of us.....
 
everyone knows i juice, i had fuck buddies that saw my stash, said nothing, my mom and sister saw my test vials and they accepted it, its not that big of a deal, its pretty obvious when someone juices
 
Girlfriend pins me and I pin the shit out of her so it works both ways...She dont care and actually enjoys that I am cycling because she gets laid more often now that I have all this t in my body..tell your girl and only your girl if it is bothering you..
 
MOEGREEN said:
Girlfriend pins me and I pin the shit out of her so it works both ways...She dont care and actually enjoys that I am cycling because she gets laid more often now that I have all this t in my body..tell your girl and only your girl if it is bothering you..
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LOL @ your user id and avatar. Makes me think of the Fredo line, "Mikey! You don't come to Las Vegas and talk to a man like Moe Green like that!::bigok:

I'd encourage your girlfriend to get on gear. If Taylor Swift was on testosterone, poor skinny little Kanye would have been unable to get the mic out of her hand

"Gimme that shit you muscle-bound bitch!"
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I don't tell anyone shit. If my wife finds my shit then the conversation will arise. But if she knows then somewhere down the road she will say" oh you are being an asshole because of the steroids" or if that girlfriend turns on you and decides to rat you out for your gear. What they don't know won't hurt em. My wife has known I did shit in the past but the less they know the better.
 
josephblow said:
I don't tell anyone shit. If my wife finds my shit then the conversation will arise. But if she knows then somewhere down the road she will say" oh you are being an asshole because of the steroids" or if that girlfriend turns on you and decides to rat you out for your gear. What they don't know won't hurt em. My wife has known I did shit in the past but the less they know the better.
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LOL nice avi,

 
josephblow said:
I don't tell anyone shit. If my wife finds my shit then the conversation will arise. But if she knows then somewhere down the road she will say" oh you are being an asshole because of the steroids" or if that girlfriend turns on you and decides to rat you out for your gear. What they don't know won't hurt em. My wife has known I did shit in the past but the less they know the better.
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There was a guy on here who said his girlfriend told the police about him having gear in the house, I can't find the thread. Not sure why anyone feels the need to tell someone who isn't their wife. Guys have been arrested for possession when it comes to gear. Will your average officer go out of his way to make a case against the average end user, no....but does it happen, yes. People talk, some by mistake, some on purpose.
 
Unless you're married to the women don't tell her. No ones business but your own. It's obvious I've juiced over the years but I keep my mouth shut.

Hell even telling your wife could lead to problems down the road if you have kids and go through a divorce. If it get messy they will use that against you in court
 
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