like i said, apologies man lol. Natural reflex is all it is. Usually an emotional over reaction. Some people in this world dont see like that(i know the feelings you speak of) and they are more than willing to write off peoples situations as their own fault, etc,etc,etc.
Its christmas time, i generally am stressed/emo around christmas and dislike it. So i apologize if i am quick to draw blades on the forums for the next 2 weeks lol.
I agree to your post, and 3j made it more clear in its intent.