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dear girls.
iam a man and i need some advice please.
4 months ago i broke up with my partner of 3 years.she was my best friend and as i thought my soulmate,it was beutiful when we first met,i fell in love with her in no time and she fell in love with me.things where so perfect that we decicded to live together and even thu we had are ups and downs we still loved one another.due to my own fault i lost her as i started treating her bad emotoionally and we soon started drifting apart,after the break up i said some horrible things to her and she said things back which broke my heart,i know she did not mine them.i regret everything i did that drove her away and even thu its 4 months ago i cant stop thinking of her i even dream about her,i found some photos today of when we first met and she was so happy in those pics that it made me cry.i know i need to move on as nodoubt i will meet another girl and fall in love but i dont want to i only want her, my heart still belongs with her.i hurt so much.i know she said nasty things back and she aint the sort of girl to let you see shes hurting but do yous reckon that it did upset her and she may possibley still miss me or think of me,we lived togegther for 2 years , she was my life, i loved her,and i feel empty and lost without her.please give me advice.

thank you
 
i think you should take alot of steroids and look really good and i bet she will take you back ! but who am i ? you should ask the real experts: REDMAN, BLEACHCOLA, IKEABOY, INSANEMAN, DJ VENOM, JOHNNYJ, ohhh and ask Brooklyn Height !
 
Die$eL~Man said:
i think you should take alot of steroids and look really good and i bet she will take you back ! but who am i ? you should ask the real experts: REDMAN, BLEACHCOLA, IKEABOY, INSANEMAN, DJ VENOM, JOHNNYJ, ohhh and ask Brooklyn Height !

steroids are part of the reason why she left me.
but im gonna on a cycle soon to look good for my holiday to new york.
 
What do you want us to say?

You broke up. You both said mean things. How am I supposed to know if she wants you back? Ask her!
 
i recently lost mine too.. Join the mother fucking club!!! :)

i see it is at everything happens for a reason and something better suited is out there!!!
 
supergirl said:
i see it is at everything happens for a reason and something better suited is out there!!!
What she said ;)

Like you said, you will find someone else... move on...
 
supergirl said:
i recently lost mine too.. Join the mother fucking club!!! :)

i see it is at everything happens for a reason and something better suited is out there!!!

suppose things do happen for a reason.
 
I WILL ADD TO THIS

While its ok to be down and out about a breakup we tend to walllow for way too long so as hard as it is, get your head up, get out there and down wallow in it because if you do your missing out on what life has to offer and will feel like a bigger tool in 6 months if you dont because you wasted 6 months of your life wallowing and she aint coming back.

I think in relationships when we start to say really nasty things thats the sign that it aint meant to be most of the time because when we get nasty maybe we dont mean those things per se but obviously deep down we are fed up
 
honestly, if you miss her that much... talk to her. im kina like you, at first we treated them great, and it slowly goes downhill. sometimes what i try to do is stop and think about everything they do for you, and how they make you feel. that usually causes me to go out and get her a card and/or gift.

if your going to try and get back with her, weigh it out... lay off the sauce if thats part of the problem. i have anger issues as it is, and i know how i am on-cycle so i wouldnt do that unless she was fully prepaired for how i may or may not act. but do it before she starts seeing someone else. that glow they have when they meet someone they like is going to be alot to compete with if she has already moved on.

take it slow at first... start with phone calls. dont mention the juice, eventually ask her out, re-make the relationship. but make all your wrongs right.
 
yep, welcome to the club. Women dont understand men have feelings, just becuase we dont express them as much. Then they play all these mind games for the oddest reasons. I just broke up with my girl of 2 1/2 yrs, doesnt feel very good. My situation was differant though, Im the only guy shes ever been with so she wants to see what else is out there. And the best part is she claims Im still the one for her and we will still end up together. sorry for hijacking your thread
 
rubberduckyo said:
What do you want us to say?

You broke up. You both said mean things. How am I supposed to know if she wants you back? Ask her!

typical insensitive female :)
 
Die$eL~Man said:
i think you should take alot of steroids and look really good and i bet she will take you back ! but who am i ? you should ask the real experts: REDMAN, BLEACHCOLA, IKEABOY, INSANEMAN, DJ VENOM, JOHNNYJ, ohhh and ask Brooklyn Height !


Don't forget about myself, Mex, Popi, and Jarni!! Uff, you're going to feel the need to contact her but don't. Just ride it out. Time heals all. I know it sounds tough, and it is, but you will get through this.
 
same shit different city

Bimmer said:
yep, welcome to the club. Women dont understand men have feelings, just becuase we dont express them as much. Then they play all these mind games for the oddest reasons. I just broke up with my girl of 2 1/2 yrs, doesnt feel very good. My situation was differant though, Im the only guy shes ever been with so she wants to see what else is out there. And the best part is she claims Im still the one for her and we will still end up together. sorry for hijacking your thread


my girl of four years left me for the same reason...the only difference is one day she told me she was moving to vegas and then she went...
"i just want to see what its like to be with someone else, but i will be back in a year" blah blah blah...
 
i had great sex last night.
im over my ex now and have a sexier girlfriend now and im loving all the sex and im on a really good cycle so things are looking up.
 
Milhouse said:
I think in relationships when we start to say really nasty things thats the sign that it aint meant to be most of the time because when we get nasty maybe we dont mean those things per se but obviously deep down we are fed up
Excellent point. Name calling is always a bad sign.
 
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