Need girls opinion on this

Crease123

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Would really appreciate any comments or advice. Im doing this only cos im so in love with this girl.

Ok i met this absolutely sweet lady at a club like 2 weeks ago. She wasnt like real stunning or hot, but very sweet, the way i like it. Anyway, its all fine and we smiled and dance and have all those good vibes, minus the touchy touchy. I waited a few days before msging her on the phone. Last week, i asked her whether wanna meet up for coffee on wednesday, but she said she got dinner with her boss and she asked for a weekend instead. We meet up that sunday night. Anyway she said she will be bringing along 2 friends. I thought things ran rather well that day, had dinner and a good chat at a nice cafe, me trying not to appear too eager, actually distributed slightly more attention to her friends den her. But anyway, i waited for a few days again before msging her, nothing serious...just ask her hows her day all those stuff. However, yesterday (sunday) and today, when i msged her...she didnt reply at all! Thats a first. I msged her earlier today asking whether wanna come out for a movie that weekday, and she replied like 8 hours later saying she will be tied up the entire week so maybe next week. Question: has she lost interest in me or is she really busy? When girls do like that are they playing hard to get, or dont wanna seem too interested, or just plain uninterested. Any replies would be much much appreciated. Thanks
 
I really hate to say it but sounds like she is politely blowing you off.

Does she have your number. Try not calling her at all and see if she picks up the phone to call you.

If she's interested she will. If not - then don't waste any more time on her.
 
I didnt showed THAT much of an interest to her friends that will make her pissed or something. Yeah i thought she's blowing me off too, but im curious why, cos throughout the get-together things are going off pretty well, and i thought she's kinda interested too
 
Technobarbie said:
I really hate to say it but sounds like she is politely blowing you off.

Does she have your number. Try not calling her at all and see if she picks up the phone to call you.

If she's interested she will. If not - then don't waste any more time on her.
Yep. Agreed.
 
sighz, i appreciate the replies, but i was hoping to hear that she was really busy and didnt meant to blow me off. Guess im only lying to myself here. She seems like such a very nice girl too. Is there anything u ladies out there recommend i do so that i stand a chance again?
 
How would you feel if a woman called you every 0.1 seconds, man take it easy she got shit to do and you callin her erry minute so she gonna start thinkin damn maybe i dont have time fo this dude.

Now the worst thing you can do is lick her ass(not literally), just lay the rules down, tell her you WILL meet her at this time. That always works for me when they dont call back, also dont call her text her, its much easier to talk on text and arrange a date on txt as well without calling her on the phone, meet up and talk to her, let her know a little more about you, ask about her and plan where your going from there.
 
that suxs man but hey she could be playing hard to get or maybe ur not her type....hope itr all works out G-luck
 
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