join the fucking club. I started benching a few months ago for the first time in 5 years. I just wanted to say i did 405 which should not have been a problem after about 2 months of training. Well about one month in my shoulder was so fucked that i am never ever getting on a flat bench again. I wish i didn't let my ego get the best of me, because it still kind of hurts. My advice, stop benching, most people do after a few years, because so many people develop shoulder problems. If i watched everyone in my gym, i would have to say I have only seen about 2 or 3 guys workout with over three plates and i am one of them, why, because all the really strong guys do not mess around on the bench. Now if you are a powerlifter, that is a different story all together, lol.