Originally posted by Nelson - Montana
I SEE AND RESPECT YOUR POINT BUT IN NO WAY WAS I ATTACKING DADAWG. I JUST THINK IT ODD THAT AN ANTAGONIST SHOULD BE GIVEN THE BENEFIT OF THE DOUBT WHEN I AM MORE OFTEN ACCUSED OF DISRUPTING A THREAD SIMPLY BECAUSE I WAS CORRECTING SOMEONES FALSE ACCUSATIONS ABOUT ME.
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No, your labelling the member an antagonist, to me VG is just a member asking questions. It is not out of the ordinary for people to question someones online credentials. Please excuse VG for not searching our forums for your credentials. He should know your credentials because everyone on the internet knows you right?
Also, why do you take everything so personal? What do you expect DADAWG to do when he has two members bickering at each other and going off topic in a thread? As a referree in a fight, would he seperate the two and tell them to clean it up or would he just grab one guy and tell him to clean it up while the other dude is alowed to keep pounding on him? DADAWG tells you to chill out and you just have to post about how he shouldnt have said anything to you. Gimme a break, is this grade school or have the test levels just not come back yet?
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I NEVER CALLED HIM A HATER. HE COMPARED ME TO GOERBALS. THAT'S A FACT. AND VG DID NOT ASK A LEGIMATE STATEMENT. IT WAS A CONFRONTATION WITH THE PREMISE THAT I'M A LIAR. IF YOU CAN'T SEE THAT I DON'T KNOW WHAT ELSE TO SAY. AGAIN, WHY AM I BEING REPREMANDED OVER SOMEONE ELSES DIPICABLE BEHAVIOR? WTF?!?!?!
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So what? He claims your full of shit. Is that not allowed? If your not full of shit, then shut him up with whatever you got. Oh, you dont feel you have to because you have been doing it for so long, well wake up and smell the coffee, that is the business you are in my friend. Flat out, your pushing products and the way you do it just asks people to question you, especially when you are going against some common concensuses more then not from what I have seen. Did you actually think when you were writing that book and designing your supplements that people wouldnt question you? Do you think the average consumer is that stupid with his money that they will just read what you post on an internet site and buy whatever your selling without asking questions? So people should buy your supplements because you wrote a book? And the other people should buy your book because you designed some supplements? I think you have this illusion that defending your credentials to someone on the net means that it is now universal for all and that just isnt the case. The business you are in, and the fact that you open yourself up to public forums on the internet and constantly promote makes you a target. Whether the people who target you are wrong about you, is simply a matter of opinion. You cant force everyone to like you and get along with you, thats not the way life works.
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NOT TRUE. NEVER SAID THAT. BUT, WHATEVER. I ALSO DON'T MIND BEING A TARGET, AS LONG AS IT'S IN THE MANNER OF A DEBATE. BUT TIME AND TIME AND TIME AGAIN, THESE THREADS BECOME ABOUT ME. ATTACKS ON ME AND MY CREDENTIALS. AND WHEN I RESPOND, I'M IN THE WRONG. SORRY. I'M NOT BACKING UP ON THIS ONE. WRONG IS WRONG. AND THAT IS WRONG.
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Some people just cant see themselves for the way they truly are Nelson and I hate to break it to you but you are one of these people if you cannot see that you are "that guy". Sure, you didnt literally post what I had in quotations but that is the way you come off and Im willing to bet money that 6 out of 10 members feel the same way. Thats not a personal dig at you, but you've got that "Tony Little" aura around you. Now I say thats not a personal dig because Tony Little is very wealthy and hopefully you will be too but you need to be able to see the way people perceive you and then you will understand what I am talking about.
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WRONG AGAIN. I DON'T EXPECT ANYTHING FROM THE MODS OTHER THAN TO DO THEIR JOB WHICH MOST OF THEM DO VERY WELL. I DON'T NEED ANYONE TO FIGHT MY BATTLES FOR ME. BUT IT WOULD BE NICE TO HAVE MY BACK COVERED WHEN PEOPLE MAKE UNSUBSTANCIATED ALLEGATIONS ABOUT ME.
What are the unsubstanciated allegations? Forgive my ignorance as I havent read every single thread you have posted in but what are the allegations that are so unsubstanciated? Did someone claim you were gay? Did someone say they had sex with your sister? What? Because if an "unsubstanciated allegation" to you is someone saying that they feel you are full of shit with some of your claims then I think you need to realize the difference between an allegation and an opinion. You cant stop people from having opinions about you Nelson, even negative ones. Sure, there should be none of the ridiculous bullshit on the boards and we try to catch as much of it as possible here but you come on here talking the talk so be prepared to have to walk the walk especially when most of what you claim coincidentally has a positive effect on sales of supplements you designed. Also, remember that you are different then most members here because you claim to be an authority on bodybuilding, you are a bodybuilding author, so naturally people are going to disagree with you and have an opinion of you that you may not like and thats just life.
INSTEAD, THE DOUBT SEEMS TO GO IN THE OTHER DIRECTION AND THE EXPLANATION IS FOLLOWED WITH "WELL NELSON, YOU ASK FOR IT." HELL, YOU DON'T WANT NEW IDEAS WHY ARE WE HERE? LETS JUST ALL AGREE AND GO HOME.
Its not that people do not want new ideas as much as this community has been put through the shitter by supplement companies selling bullshit supplements that dont do what they claim. The community is also finding itself flooded with vulnerable teenagers who have daddies credit card and its even more inviting for the supplement companies to come out with more garbage in exchange for hard earned money. So a lot of people who have been around the coimmunity for an extended time have grown sick of the shit and it is there damn right to question 'out-of-the-ordinary' supplement claims and the people who back and promote those products. So yes, we can definitely discuss new ideas but if you are going to try and convince people to buy your "unique" supplements, you better be prepared to answer questions and the longer you are in the business, the more people will knit pick at you. Theres no getting away from that.you are not on the same page as myself and the majority.
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Since you posted this publically, I responded publically so everyone knows where I stand. It's important to me since I use my real name and need to defend my reputation knowing how judgements are made from reputation. And reputations can easily be slandered .
Honestly, if the administration has a problem with me, I'll leave. I was under the assumption that my expertise was welcomed. if I'm to be perceived as just a guy who doesn't know what he's talking about and hawks supplements, I don't need it. But pick one. I ask for no special favors. But I don't need to take shit all day long either. I have NEVER attacked ANYONE. But for some reason, I'm fair game . I say that's bullshit. And I think a lot of people would agree.
None of the administration has a problem with you. Why does it always have to be you, you, you. I hate to break it to you but there hasnt been one conversation about you in the Mod forum. I got a PM from DADAWG asking me what I thought he should do with this thread. Your expertise is welcomed by the staff, but if you cant get along with members and stop whining everytime a moderator steps in to do their job then there will be re-occuring problems that will need to be addressed. Remember, the Mods dont care about you, they have a job to do and that is, in this case, get a thread back on topic. If you cant take a Mod telling you to quit the shit and stay on topic then go find a board where the Mods will give you special privlidges and spend more time and energy making sure that your feelings dont get hurt when trying to get a thread back on topic.