Sex Issues for a year Straight

[BSF5025]

Hey guys. Yes, the title sounds horrible. I've been having sex issues ever since a cycle with deca last August 2015. My sex drive is at 0% when I'm off cycle and like 50% when I'm on. I've tried numerous pct protocols, I've tried caber thinking my prolactin was through the roof (which it wasn't), I've tried proviron (which helped just a bit), I've tried cialis which is a hit or miss but still sucks I can't get a load off to save my life.

I have one week left of my pct of clomid & tmox and I plan on getting bw right after done. Here is a list of the main things I plan on getting looked at:

Total Test, Free Test, LH, FSH, estradiol, prolactin, DHT. Is there ANYTHING else you guys can think of that I should get looked at? Anything else that could come into play here? I'm lost. I can't figure this out and my anxiety is through the roof.

My strength is a bit low and my workouts suck but that's expected during a pct. My balls are big again so I know my hcg I ran and the clomid are working. I don't feel like my test levels are that low I'm doing okay. I'm just trying to figure out why my dick doesn't feel any stimulation during sex and I'm literally NEVER horny. My erections are weak when I wake up in the morning and I pretty much never get boners throughout the day either. Nothing turns me on. I feel like an asexual man and it's creepy as fuck

 

[49ER]

Thats what happens when you play with your hormones coming on and off

 

[Milton]

Dont let it get you down, lots of support here around the campfire, please keep us posted.

 

[Matt0071]

Bloodwork will determine whats going on bro
But maybe u thinking to much
Had the same issue for a few weeks thinking it was something related to aas as well but i was dealing with alot of stress in my life and one time for the life of me couldn't bust a nut lasted for hours and finally the girl said enough was enough and of course went again a few nights later and same deal, i do believe it was all in my head but i dunno never got bloods to determine things i just stopped thinking about it
The sad part is she was hot as hell, and kinda ruined things lol as she was sore as hell the next day and myself dripping sweat trying to bust a nut
Sometimes your mind is the biggest problem but since your on pct u havent recovered your natural testosterone production and again blood will determine where u stand

 

[Milton]

Had the same issue for a few weeks thinking it was something related to aas as well but i was dealing with alot of stress in my life and one time for the life of me couldn't bust a nut lasted for hours and finally the girl said enough was enough and of course went again a few nights later and same deal, i do believe it was all in my head but i dunno never got bloods to determine things i just stopped thinking about it
The sad part is she was hot as hell, and kinda ruined things lol as she was sore as hell the next day and myself dripping sweat trying to bust a nut

Doesn't every girl out there want a guy who can go for 3 hours and not bust a nut? but I feel you, sometimes you feel like a nut

 

[49ER]

Chicks are lucky if they get 3min from me

 

[Matt0071]

Myself i dont come off so i cant help u there about pct
But obviously u are trying to regain your own natural testosterone production, when u said its been happening since 2015 did u ever get bloods done to see where your natural testosterone stands after u did your pct?

 

[Matt0071]

Doesn't every girl out there want a guy who can go for 3 hours and not bust a nut? but I feel you, sometimes you feel like a nut

Worst part of it all i had sex with a so so girl a few weeks prior went within 20 min, and again in 20 min, then get with a hottie and that happened but alot of stress as 2 weeks after i lost my job ect ect so was thinking alot
Yeah but when she literally throws a towel.inbetween u and her cause your dripping sweat trying.to bust its kinda embarrassing, then to make matters worse obv the chick is gonna assume something is wrong with her which she ended up questioning me after
I look at her now like wtf she hot as fuck and wanna fuck her again but no go with her nomore lol bad experience for her

 

[Milton]

Great cardio though I feel you brother.

 

[Teutonic]

OP.
I quarantee if you get your BW back and take step s to get within acceptable ranges u ll be fine if you quit obsessing on
Is it hard
Is it gonna stay hard
Chill bro. I LOVE sex. W only hot ladies ages 18-46 at present (yes) but g d my life would be simpler if I were asexual but I m a crack addict and love curling a 105 pd size 0 lady or pinning her against a wall.
But I love red lining my Audi too...knowing it s gonna cost.

U ll be OK. May take a year to get sorted out right but at 52...it s X mas AGAIN in 4 months. 1 year ain t shit cuz. Head up, shoulders back, move forward.

There once was a sailor from 'Nave
Who kept a dead whore in a cave
She smelled like shit, was missing a tit.


But think o the money he saved.


T

 

[BSF5025]

Myself i dont come off so i cant help u there about pct
But obviously u are trying to regain your own natural testosterone production, when u said its been happening since 2015 did u ever get bloods done to see where your natural testosterone stands after u did your pct?

Yes. But my testosterone is not the issue. I'm having sex issues whether my test levels are I n range or in the multiple thousands. It's not test. And estrogen was in range too on bw. I'm asking if there's any other hormones other than what I listed that could come into play?

 

[BSF5025]

Thats what happens when you play with your hormones coming on and off

No I have friends who run one cycle a year and run pct and are fine. So you're obviously not helping anyone here

 

[BSF5025]

Myself i dont come off so i cant help u there about pct
But obviously u are trying to regain your own natural testosterone production, when u said its been happening since 2015 did u ever get bloods done to see where your natural testosterone stands after u did your pct?

My test was actually a bit low 4 months after that deca cycle because of a bad recovery. 400s (normal range: 230-1,100). But even when I got back on cycle things still just weren't right. It hasn't mattered what I do lately. On or off I'm having issues.

 

[Gainjin260]

Perhaps initially thing weren't working due to hormones. Now you expect things not to work and they don't because of performance anxiety. At least some, if not much, of this is in your head.

 

[anzel]

From what you are saying it's not in your head.
Your complaint is no feeling... can't bust a nut... weak erections...... I'm guessing when and if you do bust a nut it's low volume.
The next day if you try again..forget it.

The blood work is needed but to guess .... let's consider DHT. DHT is needed for strong firm elections. So there's a check.
Let's consider prolactin... Prolactin is responsible for refractory period. So your complaint of not busting a nut and less feeling reminds me of when you bang a girl. Wait 20 min and go bang her again and it doesn't feel as good and it's harder to get off.
So is it possible you have low dht and high prolactin?? I'm guessing like I said.

Apparently there is a condition that can occur from taking Finasteride for prostate or hair loss. It blocks dht. But what alot of men are reporting is that they feel numb down there and asexual.

So again I'm totally guessing but maybe the body has a way of doing things we are not to aware of. Negative feedback is telling your body to go low dht??
Or simply enough your prolactin is too high.
I know you tried caber...maybe you need to try prami instead??

Get your bw and come back here and let us know. Good luck too.

 

[49ER]

No I have friends who run one cycle a year and run pct and are fine. So you're obviously not helping anyone here

Try using your brain and actually think about what you are doing to your body when u shut down and give a sgort break and then shut down again. But your a smart guy and cant figure out with balanced hormones there is no issues with keepin it up. I got friends that do drugs and drink every weekend and function good in life doesnt make it right

 

[carverelli]

Doesn't every girl out there want a guy who can go for 3 hours and not bust a nut? but I feel you, sometimes you feel like a nut

Sad to say hours of continuous sex is not on top of my wife's to-do list.and it's happened to me when I've let my e2 get too low. Orgasms are dull boners are less than rock solid and busting a nut proves to be somewhat elusive

 

[carverelli]

Open, try letting your e2 creep a little higher and order some pt141.but still get bloods done make sure to include estradiol to your list of WHT to check

 

[juced_porkchop]

get bloods and post them here for us. also sexual issues can come and even stay DUE to anxiety and mind and seem very real in the way of "maybe its my body".
if your comfy with the girl and at ease and not a care or worry in world (specially about sex or worry if it will work) then you can gauge its just physical, but i suspect its mental and maybe stemmed from hormonal issues from cycle that may have leveled out but you already build up the thought pattern on this issues and essentially "mind fuked" yourself into a corner.
bloods will help us help you, keep us updated!

 

[BSF5025]

Perhaps initially thing weren't working due to hormones. Now you expect things not to work and they don't because of performance anxiety. At least some, if not much, of this is in your head.

That's what I keep trying to tell myself, but the fact that my dick feels almost no sexual sensation at all during sex is just mind boggling to me, let alone the real soft woods I've been waking up with. I feel like this is more than mental. Something is going on. I'm sure a fraction of it is performance anxiety but that can't be all. My guess is that my free testosterone levels are very low because when I was on cycle I was not getting good results at all. No free test means no results and no libido. But my bw im getting later this week will tell where I'm at.