Smilee21
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Dating life of the single mom
I train my friend at one of the gyms and we were talking one evening as we were doing Planks (2min holds) and I was telling her how I was ready to start dating. But how in the heck was I going to meet people with my schedule. I Work in the AM, take my son to Tball practice right after work, Train at the gym, and come home. I don't have time to meet people, not just out an about unless it is at the gym. Honestly, the gym is off limits, this is my place to de-stress and work on me.
So she tells me to check out POF; Plenty of Fish; a dating website where I can meet people. So March 24th, 2012 I activated my account and was a member of it until April 2nd, 2012. While only being on the site for a short amount of time, I realized that almost all these men on this site just wanted a Booty call. I am not looking for that so I wouldn't reply back when messages were sent my way. I was getting bombarded by men and it was creepy the things they would say to me in these messages.
I met a few guys that seem interesting and we have a lot in common and I am curiously intrigued to see if these men will be a part of my life as Friends and or in time maybe more than friends with one of them. Before I give up on this dating thing completely, I will just take my time and see how things go. If it doesn't work out with one of them then back to the drawing board I will go. One thing I will say is that it is quite interesting to see how men react when you don't give in to their fantasies; I had one guy get so upset bc I wouldn't talk dirty to him. Seriously, and then he was starting to get controlling and possessive the first week. I told him we are just not going to work. Already there is no Trust
I am in control here not them; my choices define the person I am presenting to these guys. I want to settle down one day, get married, have more children. This will not happen unless I stay true to what I want and what I don't want from another.
Right now there are a few individuals that I am talking with. They are all so different from one another. Working on the friendships first is the best thing I can do, just like with my training. Slow and steady wins the race. I will never give up and will never settle for anything less than I deserve.
Wish me luck, I am spending a few days together with J'hon. A 6'0" Brown hair, Blue eyes, 30yr old born in SF, raised in Carmel/Monteray area, lived in GA, TX, CO for a while. He is a Sign Language instructor, Vegetarian, who DJ's on the side. He is very intellectual, quite eccentric, makes me laugh all the time, has a young soul (sometimes I swear he is a 5yr old trapped in a 30yr old body). It will be interesting to see how he is in my environment (training), we are hitting the gym together and Running this weekend, I am going to bring him around my friends, to see how he around them. As an observer and a experimenter, I will analyze it all and I am the type that will walk away after 3 strikes. So far, J'hon doesn't have any strikes against him and it's day 8 for him and I.
To be continued
I train my friend at one of the gyms and we were talking one evening as we were doing Planks (2min holds) and I was telling her how I was ready to start dating. But how in the heck was I going to meet people with my schedule. I Work in the AM, take my son to Tball practice right after work, Train at the gym, and come home. I don't have time to meet people, not just out an about unless it is at the gym. Honestly, the gym is off limits, this is my place to de-stress and work on me.
So she tells me to check out POF; Plenty of Fish; a dating website where I can meet people. So March 24th, 2012 I activated my account and was a member of it until April 2nd, 2012. While only being on the site for a short amount of time, I realized that almost all these men on this site just wanted a Booty call. I am not looking for that so I wouldn't reply back when messages were sent my way. I was getting bombarded by men and it was creepy the things they would say to me in these messages.
I met a few guys that seem interesting and we have a lot in common and I am curiously intrigued to see if these men will be a part of my life as Friends and or in time maybe more than friends with one of them. Before I give up on this dating thing completely, I will just take my time and see how things go. If it doesn't work out with one of them then back to the drawing board I will go. One thing I will say is that it is quite interesting to see how men react when you don't give in to their fantasies; I had one guy get so upset bc I wouldn't talk dirty to him. Seriously, and then he was starting to get controlling and possessive the first week. I told him we are just not going to work. Already there is no Trust
I am in control here not them; my choices define the person I am presenting to these guys. I want to settle down one day, get married, have more children. This will not happen unless I stay true to what I want and what I don't want from another.
Right now there are a few individuals that I am talking with. They are all so different from one another. Working on the friendships first is the best thing I can do, just like with my training. Slow and steady wins the race. I will never give up and will never settle for anything less than I deserve.
Wish me luck, I am spending a few days together with J'hon. A 6'0" Brown hair, Blue eyes, 30yr old born in SF, raised in Carmel/Monteray area, lived in GA, TX, CO for a while. He is a Sign Language instructor, Vegetarian, who DJ's on the side. He is very intellectual, quite eccentric, makes me laugh all the time, has a young soul (sometimes I swear he is a 5yr old trapped in a 30yr old body). It will be interesting to see how he is in my environment (training), we are hitting the gym together and Running this weekend, I am going to bring him around my friends, to see how he around them. As an observer and a experimenter, I will analyze it all and I am the type that will walk away after 3 strikes. So far, J'hon doesn't have any strikes against him and it's day 8 for him and I.
To be continued
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