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linus31

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I'm 31, my bro is 37, his wife 32.
Bro had cancer, I guess because of all his treatments and raidation and whatever else,it seems like he's shooting blanks. There is a possibility that he might ask me to donate. My girlfriend isn't very happy about the idea and I can see her point but he is my brother. If he asks I have to, don't I?
 
No you dont have to. Morally, maybe.. it depends on the relationship you have with your brother and his wife, and your girlfriend. Legally, its your sperm. If it were me I think id want the blessing of both him and your girlfriend. LOL and by donate sperm, is he literally asking you to have sex with her or to do this the labratory way? If your not marrying this girlfriend then she really doesnt have much say.
 
DougoeFre5h said:
No you dont have to. Morally, maybe.. it depends on the relationship you have with your brother and his wife, and your girlfriend. Legally, its your sperm. If it were me I think id want the blessing of both him and your girlfriend. LOL and by donate sperm, is he literally asking you to have sex with her or to do this the labratory way? If your not marrying this girlfriend then she really doesnt have much say.
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couldnt of said it any better
 
im assuming he means the laboratory way, and if so.... that's pretty shitty of your g/f to have a problem with it... if it were me, i'd have a problem with her... its ur bro for christ's sake.
 
If you don't have any kids already, be REAL careful here. Watching someone else raise a child that is "genetically" yours may be a lot harder than you think. You may not like the way the child is being raised and you really have no say in the matter. On the other hand, I'd check the laws to make sure she (your brothers wife) can't ever hold you responsible for the child should she and your brother split up.
 
Id honestly consult a professional and have a group discussion. This is a real big thing, and god only knows the psychological repercussions down the road.
 
Get a legal agreement up front. Make sure its clear you are just a donor and that you neither want, nor will accept any responsibility - and that in all ways, your brother is the responsible person.

If it were my brother, i would do it. And if i were in your brother's situation, I would much rather have a donor i know, and who is as closely related to me as possible.

However, until you have an agreement, drawn up by an attorney and signed - then i would not do anything.

And by the way, do the decent thing. Dont have sex with his wife, thats just not right and it will become a huge problem in their and your relationships in the future. Just go into the room next door and whack it off and then hand over the juice so to speak.
 
i ran into the exact same problem; my sister was not able to conceive, and i donated several of my eggs for her. thorsky is exactly right, sometimes there are ethical concerns with the way the child is being raised. we both signed an agreement that said i would not ever be held responsible for the child monetarily or physically, BUT i could never ask for parental rights of the child; EVEN if my sister were to die. that was tough, and at times its a real mindfuck to think of my nephew as my SON (he's almost a year old now). however, my sister is a wonderful mom, and i feel like i made a good decision. so i'd say go to counseling and talk it out, and make the decision based on how competent you are to handle the possible consequences. if your happiness and willingness to help your brother outweighs your apprehension, get a good lawyer to draw up a contract and do it. if for even a minute you doubt yourself, DON'T. pretty simple. oh, and fuck what your g/f thinks; how's that old saying go? "the bro comes before the ho"? dont let her force you to make a decision you'll end up holding against her. hope that helped.
 
if his wife has big tits then you fuck her. if she has small tits then you wack off.

my first honest reaction is that its a bad idea. i am also not a big fan of adoption because the kid always looks for the real parents and even if though they have loving parents there is a stronger connection with the people that gave them up. i think it would be too risky and your brother is better off finding another donor. on the other hand i think it could be great if things work out perfectly. things usually dont work out perfectly though.
 
Bro's Before Hoe's! It Will Be Your Neice Or Nephew Do It Man Its The Only Chance You Have To Help Your Brother And His Wife To Concive A Child With Factory Sperm! Besides Who's Your "girlfriend" To Say What You Do With Your Sperm. And If She Wants To Be A Part Of It Tell Her She Can Hold The Dish You Drop The Load In!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
linus31 said:
I'm 31, my bro is 37, his wife 32.
Bro had cancer,

Sorry to hear about your brothers cancer.
As for you donating Sperm , This is a big decision and I really agree with what Thorsky has said.
If you decide to do it, Keep in mind that every time you see this child you will wondering how all involved lives would be if you were raising the child.
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Thanks for all the advice, except Capt. Awsome. There would be no "hitting it." Jackass.

They are tying inverto and I've just learned that 2 of the eggs were implanted, now they just have to wait and see. I'll keep ya posted. Thanks again.
 
linus31 said:
Thanks for all the advice, except Capt. Awsome. There would be no "hitting it." Jackass.

They are tying inverto and I've just learned that 2 of the eggs were implanted, now they just have to wait and see. I'll keep ya posted. Thanks again.
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blow me. im the only one here looking out for your best interests. everyone else is more concerned about your brother his skank wife and the baby. you are a man with needs also and she might have big titties.
 
Captin Awsome, your so right, how could I have been such a fool. Thank you so much. I'm down on my hands and knees asking for your forgiveness.

Jackass!!
 
linus31 said:
Captin Awsome, your so right, how could I have been such a fool. Thank you so much. I'm down on my hands and knees asking for your forgiveness.

Jackass!!
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i appreciate your appreciation but i dont do it for that. i just try to do the right thing because i care about people.

make sure to video tape the act and post up some screen shots.
 
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