Has to be the total package. I like a nice butt, and then they have to have a pretty face, and nice legs. I like boobs, but they don't have to be huge, just so they are nicely shaped and don't sag, lol. If they have all this and then say they don't have a cute face, then to me it doesn't matter what the rest looks like, oh and yes they have to have a good personality; friendly, smiles and nice teeth. I like long hair, no short hair for me. Hair color doesn't really matter just so it is kept up. Oh, and one thint that is a pet peve is that if the woman is totally unorganized, and messing im gone, lol! Im a neat freak and if a woman is a slob im out. Ive seen more women that are messy around the house, drawers a mess etc and i cant stand it. I wouldn't be able to live with someone like that.