Wife asked if Im on steroids

[glubgawd]

That was her second question "How many more shots do you have and are you going to do it again." I avoided the question by saying that after being on cycle that I need to take atleast the same amount of time off.

I know these types of threads have been written before, i just wanted wanted a place to vent. Nobody knows about my use so this is the only outlet that I have. Thanks for letting my vent.

oh don't worry - your wife will tell everyone she knows

Just pray she doesn't have any Oprah loving friends/family.

 

[Mrs P]

That was her second question "How many more shots do you have and are you going to do it again." I avoided the question by saying that after being on cycle that I need to take atleast the same amount of time off.

I know these types of threads have been written before, i just wanted wanted a place to vent. Nobody knows about my use so this is the only outlet that I have. Thanks for letting my vent.

Stiphy

Don't worry about it .. is good to vent, I think as long as you talk to her, keep the communiation open, let her ask questions & educate her, You'll be alright.
There's so many misconceptions about AAS It's been fed to us by the media etc, She probably has heard horror stories about AAS use, so just get her involved and she can learn for her self that it's not what she tought.

Just don't let her ever see you blow up or loose your temper, you don't want her to think that is related to your use.

good luck

 

[Mrs P]

oh don't worry - your wife will tell everyone she knows

Just pray she doesn't have any Oprah loving friends/family.

Not everyone's wife is like this, I've known and supported my husband's use for 17 years & neither his family or mine know.

 

[JuiceAuthority]

Well, good news and bad news. The good news is that my Test E cycle is producing noticable gains. The bad news is that my wife is against steroids and she asked me last night if I was taking them.

I don't hide shit from my wife. It's makes for an unhealthy and unstable relationship. We'll be married 10yrs in Sept, have 3 kids and while I'm not the easiest person to live with she tolerates my shortcomings (there are many) because I am honest with her.

I took the time to educate her on the use of hormones. She doesn't like the idea but she also respects the fact I'm going to do what I want to do. Eventually your wife will find out. Her friends might suggest you're on AAS. Her friends husbands or GFs might suggest it and you'll always be dodging the issue. What happens if she were to find your stash? Then she'll wonder what else you're lying about and it's all downhill from there.

 

[LANDSCAPE1]

Now when u guys argue, she'll be blaming it on the "roid rage" ..... plus, sooner or later shes gonna throw that all in your face in the divorce

 

[stiphy]

Now when u guys argue, she'll be blaming it on the "roid rage" ..... plus, sooner or later shes gonna throw that all in your face in the divorce

Thanks for the positive reinforcement

 

[LANDSCAPE1]

Thanks for the positive reinforcement

Youll be alright.. just tell her if she runs her mouth to anybody about it, your gonna file for divorce.... Girls gossip bro... I think u should go legal... that way is she calls the cops on u/divorces u than u have a script/Dr's supervision

 

[Dreaded Pirate Roberts]

I laid down the law before I got married. I wasn't going to stop cycling. It was understood. 2 weeks after I got married the Bitch had the nerve to ask me to stop. Why is it women think the rule don't apply to them.

 

[Mrs P]

I laid down the law before I got married. I wasn't going to stop cycling. It was understood. 2 weeks after I got married the Bitch had the nerve to ask me to stop. Why is it women think the rule don't apply to them.

Well, some girls think they could change or reform their man, honestly you have and will make compromises when you get married, but you have to respect the other person's decisions, I always saw it this way, why would you want to ask your husband to stop using because of you, or to choose between AAS and you, even if he chooses you, Do you want to have someone next to you that is unhappy to make you happy ?
Not a happy marriage..IMO, couples spend way too much time fighting over silly things, instead of accepting each other.

But understanding the women, they probably think they're helping their man, is all about being misinformed, and not keeping an open mind.

 

[pickle bunny]

That was her second question "How many more shots do you have and are you going to do it again." I avoided the question by saying that after being on cycle that I need to take atleast the same amount of time off.

I know these types of threads have been written before, i just wanted wanted a place to vent. Nobody knows about my use so this is the only outlet that I have. Thanks for letting my vent.

I dont understand all the beatin around the bush with word games.
Why dont you just own up and man up????

Something wrong with tellin the truth??

 

[JuiceAuthority]

Well, some girls think they could change or reform their man, honestly you have and will make compromises when you get married, but you have to respect the other person's decisions, I always saw it this way, why would you want to ask your husband to stop using because of you, or to choose between AAS and you, even if he chooses you, Do you want to have someone next to you that is unhappy to make you happy ?
Not a happy marriage..IMO, couples spend way too much time fighting over silly things, instead of accepting each other.

But understanding the women, they probably think they're helping their man, is all about being misinformed, and not keeping an open mind.

I wish my wife didn't spend $1000+ on purses or find it necessary to have over 300 pair of shoes. She likes to spend her $$$ on clothes, purses and shoes and I like to spend mine on AAS, GH and supps. I think my habit is much less cash out the door judging by the credit card bills. The deal we have is she can spend on herself and I can spend on myself. It's a fair compromise.

 

[Mrs P]

I wish my wife didn't spend $1000+ on purses or find it necessary to have over 300 pair of shoes. She likes to spend her $$$ on clothes, purses and shoes and I like to spend mine on AAS, GH and supps. I think my habit is much less cash out the door judging by the credit card bills. The deal we have is she can spend on herself and I can spend on myself. It's a fair compromise.

Sounds fair to me ! Don't get me started on shoes..Let's just say a girl can never have too many pairs of shoes... Let's just say Mr P knows my addiction and is my enabler !lol

Now $1000 on purses and 300 pairs of shoes.. Wow That's a lot !!

 

[LANDSCAPE1]

This goes back to if your with the right woman or not. . . Tell the truth blah, blah, blah. Not every woman is like Mrs's P. . . . Their your best friend, untill they get fed up or hurt, then they'll burn your ass to the ground in court.
Now that i think about it, ill just have this worded real cute in my pre nup.. then when she tries to bring it up, it'll cost her ass

 

[JuiceAuthority]

Sounds fair to me ! Don't get me started on shoes..Let's just say a girl can never have too many pairs of shoes... Let's just say Mr P knows my addiction and is my enabler !lol

Now $1000 on purses and 300 pairs of shoes.. Wow That's a lot !!

Some of the Prada and Gucci purses have been north of $2k. I can buy a SHITLOAD of AAS for that amount. She also "claims" Prada and Gucci never go on sale. I need to look into that because I smell BS.

 

[rocko3927]

I don't hide shit from my wife. It's makes for an unhealthy and unstable relationship. We'll be married 10yrs in Sept, have 3 kids and while I'm not the easiest person to live with she tolerates my shortcomings (there are many) because I am honest with her.

I took the time to educate her on the use of hormones. She doesn't like the idea but she also respects the fact I'm going to do what I want to do. Eventually your wife will find out. Her friends might suggest you're on AAS. Her friends husbands or GFs might suggest it and you'll always be dodging the issue. What happens if she were to find your stash? Then she'll wonder what else you're lying about and it's all downhill from there.

i am with you on this.....my wife is so fricken cool about it she just got her taxes back and suggested i by me a treat...meaning order from snaps...i did and am waiting.....any day now.......

 

[Juicer2222]

well, you're kind of fucked now. even if you try and tell her now she's gonna take it as you been lying to her. lol

well, you got some decisions to make huh?

ha u really r smart RJ. Thats the situation I was in, and I would recommend for anyone that is in a serious relationship, to educate and tell them asap. My girl is completely cool with the gear now, but still doesnt like that I lied to her.

and i dont mean the "ha u really r smart RJ" comment as in I thought u were dumb or anything. U seem really smart in a lot of areas on here. One of the smartest guys on this board I would say.

 

[Mrs P]

Some of the Prada and Gucci purses have been north of $2k. I can buy a SHITLOAD of AAS for that amount. She also "claims" Prada and Gucci never go on sale. I need to look into that because I smell BS.

Whaaat ?? That's crazy, I would rather spend that much money on a family vacation, not worth it IMO, But I can understand how some girls are into brand names, I don't care about brands, I actually don't understand why wome women wear t-shirts with a Gucci log on it, why are they adverstising these brands for free ?? you are paying 3 times more than you would pay for a plain white t-shirt.
But that's just what I think, if you can afford your wife's taste..Good for you !

 

[JuiceAuthority]

Whaaat ?? That's crazy, I would rather spend that much money on a family vacation, not worth it IMO, But I can understand how some girls are into brand names, I don't care about brands, I actually don't understand why wome women wear t-shirts with a Gucci log on it, why are they adverstising these brands for free ?? you are paying 3 times more than you would pay for a plain white t-shirt.
But that's just what I think, if you can afford your wife's taste..Good for you !

You and my wife need to have a talk. I don't get it either, but she doesn't understand why I would want to inject hormones into my body. That to her seems more insane than spending $2k on purse. Maybe she's right. Who knows?

 

[Rond01]

my gf is in school to be a nurse so she does all my glute inj. but its not a good thing when u did something wrong recently i learned a few says ago cause she wiggled it a little bit. aahhh! . she denied it was intentional

 

[glubgawd]

my gf is in school to be a nurse so she does all my glute inj. but its not a good thing when u did something wrong recently i learned a few says ago cause she wiggled it a little bit. aahhh! . she denied it was intentional

sure it was.....